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TED GOCKE'S BLOG

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10.05.2011
MY WIFE IS DATING ANOTHER MAN....
Ted Gocke
Ted Gocke

ME!!!!  We have ben married for over 21 years now, and I have to admit that many times I have neglected our marriage.  We have always loved each other, but if we are not careful we allow the things of life to take precedent over our relationship.  I have ignored my wife way to much.  I have allowed myself to become to busy and put everything else ahead of our marriage's health.

Recently, God has opened my eyes and made me aware that I need to pay much more attention to her.  So......I am making strides to be a better husband, and a better father-a different man.

You know what?  I am having the time of my life dating my wife all over again!  Making sure I do those little things to get her attention and remind her how much I love her, (just like I did in college before we were married.)  I get butterflys in my stomach when I hold her hand.  I find myself thinking about her all day.  I am constantly looking for ways I can serve her and make her feel special.

I have heard someone saying we put our best foot forward and really try to impress and win our future spouses heart.  Then, after we win them/marry them-we back off, become lazy and apathetic.

It's no wonder so many marriages end in divorce.  Let's make a new committment to be a "different spouse"-the one who originally tried so hard to win our loves affecton-and did.

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