Shining the Light J103 http://www.j103.com/ Shining the Light J103 en J103 http://www.j103.com/img/layout/j103_logo.png http://www.j103.com/ 129 129 Are You Kidding Me! What a Lineup of Concerts! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2012/02/are-you-kidding-me-what-a-lineup-of-concerts The TN Valley is shaping up to be an incredible place for concerts this year!


First WinterJam rolls into the UTC Mackenzie Arena on Sunday, Feb. 12.  Ten artists for only $10 at the door.  Fantastic!


We also have the J103 Birthday Bash at Ridgedale Baptist Church, Thursday March 1 with Big Daddy Weave, Mike's Chair and Kerrie Roberts!  Crazy Good!  Tickets?  $10.00 in advance!


Then there is FFH, Sidewalk Prophets, Casting Crowns with Matthew West, Kutless and Hawk Nelson all appearing in the area before we get to the month of May.


May brings us MooFest is Athens TN with Steven Curtis Chapman.


The Big Kahuna!   JFEST!  Saturday June 2 with Kutless, Building 429, Chris August, Sidewalk Prophets and Dara Maclean is shaping up to be the best JFEST line up yet.....But I'm not done....


Riverbend's Faith and Family Night with Chris Tomlin and The Museum on Tuesday night June 12.


Wow!  Call all your out of town friends and family and tell them to pack up the rental truck and move here because this the place for Christian Concerts!!!  Who will make them all?

]]> J103 Listeners are awesome!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2012/02/j103-listeners-are-awesome I just heard Steve Green on the air with Tom and Jack our friends from Cross International.


You have successfully gone over our 500 child goal!!!!


Over 500 orphans in Mozambique Africa will now be off the streets, in a Christian home, and will be receiving the food, clothing, shelter, education, medical attention and most important the Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ!


You have, once again changed the face of eternity.


I can't wait to get to Heaven and see all those smiling faces!


 

]]> Wow! That's Hot! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2012/02/wow-thats-hot Friday morning you need to be listening to the Morning Show for several reasons:


1.  We are going to be announcing the JFEST line up, (heads up-it will actually be announced on the JFEST Facebook page Thursday).  From the few that know they think this is the best line up ever!


2.  We are going to be talking with Dixie Fuller from the Riverbend Festival about this year's Faith and Family Night Headliner and some of the support acts.  (We are going to give you a sneak peak on the J103 Facebook page.


3.  With the Super Bowl on Sunday we are going to be talking favorite Super Bowl Snacks, go over some of your recipes (check out the Morning show page here at J103.com) and award two listeners a J103 prize pack for their recipes.


4.  Ever wanted to make Chicken Wings for your family but didn't want to spend hours in front of a fryer?  A good friend of mine Todd Hartman (from Grillin Thyme Catering) is going to come in and share with us how to make easy, delicious chicken wings that will make you the talk of the family.  He brought some sweet and hot ones in for us to sample today.......I love "hot/spicy" foods but the ones he brought in for me to try today?     Wow!  That's Hot!

]]> Gods Speed Mike! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2012/01/gods-speed-mike One of my friends has just signed off of live radio for what he thinks is the last time.  Mike Lee has been such a blessing to the J103 ministry for a number of years-most recently the last several.


He came in when the ministry was facing a pretty tough financial time and volunteered his incredible talent for our afternoon show.


Mike is going back to truck-driving, a love he has.  He loves the potential of ministering to other truckers, those he comes into contact with at the stops, and anyone he will encounter.


Join me in praying for Mike and God's working in his ministry as he is on the road.  Also pray for his family as they adjust to periods of seperation.


Mike-keep it between the lines, out of the ditches, and under the speed limit!!!


Know that every time I see a big red truck-I'm praying for you and your family!


Love you bro!


Big 10-4!!!

]]> Format the Card!!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/12/format-the-card For Christmas this year I blessed my wife with a new camera.  She was so excited to open it and begin taking pictures with it right away.  She took pictures of everything!!!!  The Christmas tree, the dogs, Christmas Dinner, our family, the centerpiece on the table, you name it....she captured it.......or so she thought.


After her parents went home, and we had everything cleaned up, we sat down and began to look at the instruction manuel to see all of the really neat features this new camera had.


To our horror we learned that the first thing you had to do was "format the memory disc."  What that means in "non-computer talk" is that all of the pictures she had taken could not be retrieved.


After we got over the disappointment that all of those images were now lost she began shooting again...(after we formatted the disc!)


It reminds me of many people's lives.  We get so busy doing so many things that we fail to make sure the most important things are taken care of.


The most important thing for anyone is our Salvation in Jesus Christ.  We celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ this time of year because He had to be born so He could die for our sins.  We must make sure that we have accepted Jesus into our hearts and lives before anything else.  That acceptance of the gift God gave us is the most important thing.  Just like pictures on an unformatted disc if you don't have Jesus Christ in your heart-nothing else will matter.


Format your heart-give it to Jesus!   Then......smile and say "Cheese!"

]]> And that Charlie Brown..... Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/12/and-that-charlie-brown As a child I loved "It's a Charlie Brown Christmas."  When it would come on TV I would be glued to the set.


I loved it when Snoopy and Woodstock would decorate his doghouse and then win the decorating contest.


I loved it when all of the needles would fall off the tree Charlie Brown bought.


But the part I loved the most is when Linus shared the true meaning of Christmas and recited Luke's account of the Birth of Jesus.


I never thought it was odd that they suddenly turned off the lights and cast the spotlight of the auditorium on him as he shared.  Because, you see, as a child, to me Christmas was all about a lot of things-presents, decorations, fun with family and the story of the Birth of Jesus.


Once I gave my life to Jesus, suddenly I knew why the spotlight was shown on Linus.....because that is what the spotlight should shine on each Christmas-the Birth of Jesus Christ.


We have one week left until Christmas Day.  Will you join me in shining the spotlight on the Birth of Jesus?

]]> It gets dark just way to early! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/11/it-gets-dark-just-way-to-early When you are up before the dawn and spend most of your day inside-it really makes it appear to be a short day when the sun goes down so early.  Medical experts have confirmed a Seasonal Attitude Disorder (SAD) and sometimes I think I have a mild-case of it.


Twice this week already, my wife and I have looked at each other and said, "Wow, it feels like it is 10 o'clock" when really it was only 5:30 or 6:00.


Oh well......in another couple of weeks the days will begin to get longer again.   Bring on the Spring!!!!


 

]]> Thankful for Thanksgiving Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/11/thankful-for-thanksgiving It just comes natural to stop this time of year and collect your thoughts on what you are thankful for.


Salvation, my wife-Amy, my three kids-Lauren, Trevor and Chipper, my ministry here at J103, all of the luxuries God provides-a nice house, vehicles to drive, clothes to wear, food to eat, great friends and coworkers, my church family, our pets, (yes-I am thankful for our menagire of animals-just don't tell my wife!), good health, great memories of fun times, a great Christian heritage that was left for me and I am trying to pass on to my kids....I could go on for ever.


Tomorrow before you dive into the turkey and dressing, and before you head out to face the Black Friday/Thursday sales-stop and be thankful.  Write a list-I think you will be surprised at how much you really do have to be thankful and once you begin to be thankful-you will often forget what you don't have.


Happy Thanks-giving!


Ted

]]> Great Job with Operation Christmas Child! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/11/great-job-with-operation-christmas-child Yesterday we drove the J103 Prize Cruiser and van loaded down with shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child.


Our J103 listeners bless us each and every year and we always hope to surpass the 1000 mark.  We always start off trying to keep an accuate count so we know how many we are taking, but it never ends up that way.


We pull into the LifeCare Center drop off and the volunteers unload and carefully count how many we brought.


This year YOU gave 1,248 shoe boxes for Operation Christmas Child!!!  You are so awesome.


Keep praying for each one of the over 42,000 kids that will receive a shoebox from the TN Valley.  Pray that God will speak to each of them and they will accept the ultimate gift-Jesus!


Thank you for once again being the best listeners in the world!!!

]]> Great Shot-Wrong Goal! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/11/great-shot-wrong-goal Earlier this week, I announced the first Ridgeland High School home game of the season.  The Panthers were hosting the Warriors of LFO.


Everyone was excited and there were several underclassmen playing for RHS (because the football team is still playing in the playoffs and several of the varsity players play both sports.)  The referee brought the two centers in to midcourt for the opening tip-off.


The ball went up, one of the players tipped the ball to their teammate who dribbled down court, around a couple of the opposing players, layed it up (beautifully I might add), and scored two points just like that in less than 5 seconds..........the only problem..........it was in the wrong basket.    Great shot!  Wrong Goal!  The opposing team started with 2 unearned points.


Watching my kids play soccer for years I have seen several "own goals" where inadvertently you score in your own goal for the other team.  It is embarrassing when it happens.


In the gym, everyone laughed (including the player who made the shot).


In life-I have ran the wrong way on the court and then managed to stop and look back to realize I was doing something good, just not what I was supposed to be doing.


A youth ministry friend of mine once said, "If the Devil can't make you bad-he will make you busy."  I have been, to many times, to busy to see what God wanted me to accomplish.


Great Shot!  Wrong Goal!

]]> I wanted to vote Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/11/i-wanted-to-vote I find it hard to believe that there are people who choose not to vote.  I'm not talking about those who occasionally forget to go or have such a busy day that they can't get away to go to their polling place.


Since I turned 18 I have missed very few opportunities to vote.  When you look at countries where the public opinion is not respected yet alone allowed to be shared it humbles me to think God has given us these freedoms.


Then there are those who have stood up and given their lives so I can have the freedoms we have because of our democracy.


Yesterday afternoon, after leaving the station and getting home, Amy and I went to vote.   Our polling place was closed.  We went to the downtown Ringgold Courthouse Annex and learned that we had nothing to vote on.  It was only the city of Ringgold and the city of Fort Oglethorpe and not Catoosa County that had an election yesterday.  Since we don't live in either of those cities limits we had nothing to vote on.


If you don't vote.....then you shouldn't criticize the decisions that are made.

]]> A Yuri is waiting on you-Operation Christmas Child-Miracle Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/11/a-yuri-is-waiting-on-you-operation-christmas-child-miracle Every year I hear of more and more people that have been impacted by Operation Christmas Child.  In the Chattanooga Times Free Press this morning was an article on Yuri Lopez, a senior at Bryan College in Dayton.  She was a Honduran orphan and received one of the shoeboxes when she was 6-years old.  She said because of that box full of toys, personal hygiene items, and a note from the little girl who packed the box-the lonlieness she felt seemed to disapear and she knew that Jesus (and the family who sent her the box) loved her.


This story is really cool for me becasue.....Yuri plays soccer with my daughter Lauren at Bryan College.  She is a little in size but has an incredible smile and heart.


Get your boxes for Operation Christmas Child from us here at J103, take your family and pack them, and then return them to us here at the studio no later than 12 noon on November 21.  There is a Yuri waiting on you!

]]> So Sore Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/11/so-sore This week, Amy and I started Matt Eubanks Boot Camp.  The goal for me is to drop 30-40 pounds by New Years, (or at least tighten up a lot of what I've got.)  Amy says (and I say she doesn't need it-good husband!) she wants to lose about 15 pounds.


The way we both feel right now, I believe we are well on our way.  I can barely lift my arms above my shoulders.  I am having a hard time reaching around and grabbing the ink pen out of my back pocket.


After training for and competing in the Body Building Contest 3 years ago, I am familiar with this pain, but it still aches and constantly reminds you that you are crazy for putting your body through that.


Even though we are sore-we don't stop.  Anything that is worth something will always cost you something.  If that means the two of us reaching our fitness goals-bring on the pain.......and the tylenol!

]]> The Power of Touch Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/10/the-power-of-touch Yesterday evening, Amy and I took Oakley and went walking in the Chickamauga Battlefield Park.


I parked the vehicle, and got out.  Amy took Oakley for a little potty break and I put my iphone in my sweatshirt pocket and hooked my headphones up.


Amy walked back over after Oakley was "finished," and we started walking, with me holding the dogs leash.  Before I could reach into my pocket and turn my music on-Amy reached over and grabbed my hand.  There we were walking along hand in hand, both of us with our earbuds in our ears, only I wasn't listening to any music!


It felt so good holding my wifes hand that I didn't want to let go and turn on my music.  So I just walked for about a mile and a half with my earbuds on and no music....well.....except the music in my heart!

]]> Thank You First Things First and Chikfila Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/10/thank-you-first-things-first-and-chikfila Last night, Amy and I went to Chattanooga's Great Date Night at the Trade and Convention Center.

It was a lot of fun.  Former Newsong member Michael OBrien did a good job, Bubba and Dan Cathy were welcoming but the highlight for me and Amy was, by far, Michael Gungor and his "Laugh your way to a better marriage" mini-seminar.  He described how men and women's brains are different and how if we realize that and act accordingly our marriages will be so much stronger.

Check him out on Youtube!  You will love it and you will laugh!

]]> Courageous Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/10/courageous I was able to go and see the movie Courageous Saturday night with my son Trevor and his girlfriend Renae.

The movie lived up to everything I had heard about it.  The point that hit me and challenged me the most was when one of the main characters said, "I don't want to be a "good enough" father.  I want to be the best father."

If you or your spouse or child or any other family member or friend were to die right now-would you have any regrets?  I didn't spend enough time with them.  I didn't tell them I loved them enough.  I should of taken the time to dance with them.  Those are all regrets that can haunt you for a long time.

Wipe out those regrets before they become a reality!  Don't settle for "good enough."  Be the best!  Be Courageous!

]]> Boot Scoot n Boogie Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/10/boot-scoot-n-boogie I am amazed at how Cowboy Boots seem to always make a comeback.  You see them everywhere.

This past Saturday at the remote in Dalton, Amy and I saw a young lady wearing a bright pink pair of Cowboy boots.  She told us where online she got them.  We came home and checked out the website....it is amazing at how many different colors they come in.

So, in honor of the cowboy boot, I am proudly wearing one of my two pairs today.  When I was in college, we went on a mission trip to Cherokee North Carolina to work on the Indian reservation.  While on the way we stopped in Pigeon Forge and Gatlinburg.  I went into Stage West and bought a pair of Diamondback Rattlesnake boots.  They were pretty trendy back in the day.

To be honest, the only reason I wore them today is because a co-worker said they would make fun of me if I did! :)

]]> My wife is dating another man.... Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/10/my-wife-is-dating-another-man ME!!!!  We have ben married for over 21 years now, and I have to admit that many times I have neglected our marriage.  We have always loved each other, but if we are not careful we allow the things of life to take precedent over our relationship.  I have ignored my wife way to much.  I have allowed myself to become to busy and put everything else ahead of our marriage's health.

Recently, God has opened my eyes and made me aware that I need to pay much more attention to her.  So......I am making strides to be a better husband, and a better father-a different man.

You know what?  I am having the time of my life dating my wife all over again!  Making sure I do those little things to get her attention and remind her how much I love her, (just like I did in college before we were married.)  I get butterflys in my stomach when I hold her hand.  I find myself thinking about her all day.  I am constantly looking for ways I can serve her and make her feel special.

I have heard someone saying we put our best foot forward and really try to impress and win our future spouses heart.  Then, after we win them/marry them-we back off, become lazy and apathetic.

It's no wonder so many marriages end in divorce.  Let's make a new committment to be a "different spouse"-the one who originally tried so hard to win our loves affecton-and did.

]]> I let the Monster Loose! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/10/i-let-the-monster-loose Playfully, I call Trevor's dog, Oakley-"The Monster."  This morning I let Tia and Roxie (Amy's chihauahas) ot to "do their business".  And then after a 5 minute headstart I let Oakly out.  Oakley, (if he weren't so sweet, young and dumb), could eat the smaller dogs.  He is that big.

He made a B-Line for Tia (the white chihauaha), who growled at him, showed her teeth and he ran away.  He ran to Roxie next and she (the brown chug-chiahuaha/pug mix) just rolled over on her back and acted like a slug.  After Oakly sniffed her he went away to do her business while Roxie remained on her back looking paralyzed.

How do you handle the "monsters" of your life.  In reality they are harmless and just irritants but how do you face them?  Do you bear your teeth, growl and stand your ground against them?  Or maybe you roll over on your back and let them totally overtake you.

I say, "sniff em back!"

]]> Thankful for warm coats! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/10/thankful-for-warm-coats Saturday morning I was broadcasting from Irene's Cakes and Candies in Dalton.  The day was beautiful with lots of sunshine.  Would of been a perfect early fall day had it not been for the wind.  Where we were set up was in the shade so you can imagine how chilly this summer boy was.

Fortunately a good friend of the ministry, Brent Ervin had supplied the J103 airstaff with some new Columbia Jackets.  I was nice, warm and toasty!

Thanks a bunch Brent!

]]> A TV fast? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/09/a-tv-fast OK, I didn't plan on fasting from TV.  I didn't decide one day to give up watching any of the Fall shows this season.  It just kind of happened.

I am a big, Survivor, Dancing with the Stars, The Sing Off, Food Network junkie, but becasue of a hectic schedule and a new love to spend as much quality time with my wife and son Chipper, I just haven't gotten around to watching.

Know what.......I don't really miss it.  Sure, I still keep up with who's gone home on DWTS and who got kicked out of the tribe on Survivor, but (in the latter case) I don't know who they are.

No real point to make here....just an observation....It's strange.

]]> And God said......"Let there be light..." Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/09/and-god-saidlet-there-be-light Well, the fluorescent light ballasts have been changed....I didn't burn down the house or get electocuted!  My dad would have been proud!

I am not the most handy guy to have around the house when it comes to fixing things.  That gene skipped right over me....my dad tried hard to teach me and make it stick but it just wasn't in my DNA.

I don't think my dad ever took a car to a mechanic.  He never hired an electrician or plumber or contractor for that matter.  He built our garage, wired anything that needed to and could fix just about anything.   Me?   Thank God I have a lot of handy friends!!!!

But I did manage to change out the ballasts on two light fixtures, (thanks to a couple of phone calls to Derek our JFEST electrician!!!)

But hey, we can see now in the kitchen and in Amy's closet!!!!!

]]> I am not an electrician!!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/09/i-am-not-an-electrician One of my weaknesses is fixing anything!!!
There is a fluorescent light in Amy's closet and one in the kitchen that the light bulbs had begun to flicker.  I replaced the bulbs and they still flickered.  So someone told me the ballast were going bad.

I managed to take down the old ballasts and get to Home Depot to buy replacements.  The light fixtures we have are so old that I had to buy different ones.  I came home, had to drill sheet metal screws to mount the new ballasts, spliced all of the wires and replaced the bulbs........They still flicker!!!!!

I called our JFEST electrician Derek and he told me that I was probably using the wrong bulbs.  New updated ballasts now mean new efficient bulbs.

Another trip back to the store!!!!!!!

]]> Last Day of Summer :( Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/09/last-day-of-summer- It is no secret that I am a summer boy!  I love wearing shorts, swimming, being in the sunshine.  For years Fall meant "the end of my favorite time of the year."  I didn't look forward to Fall.

Now, my wife Amy's favorite time of the year is Fall!  She loves it!  The cooler days and nights, the beautiful leaves turning colors.  She really looks forward to Fall.

God recently urged me to look at Fall differently.  If Fall is my wife's favorite time of the year, and I love my wife, then I will want her to enjoy it to the fullest.

I am actually looking forward to spending as many fun-filled days as possible investing in my marriage and our relationship.

(Im still dreading raking up all the leaves!)  :)

]]> "You are so blessed to work here!!!!" Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/09/you-are-so-blessed-to-work-here On a rainy Tuesday (today), it would be easy to walk into your place of employment and feel down, even at a Christian Radio Station. 

Just this morning I mentioned on air that, like one of our Facebook friends, I was tired.  I have had to deal with some mental and emotional stress this week that has worn me out. (Everything is totally fine now!, but it has me a little fatigued).

I had just finished the morning show and planning tomorrow's topics when I walked up to the front desk to drop off something.  There was an older woman there and I asked her if someone was taking care of her.  She got so excited and asked if I knew a song we played at 8:45 that morning.  I took her in the studio and found the song on the computer and played it for her just to confirm.

It looked like she was having a revival service right there in the studio!!  She was so happy, and she headed for the door-on her way to the nearest Christian bookstore to buy the CD.

On the way out she kept saying, "I can't believe I got to meet all of you!  This is such a Godly Place!  You are so blessed to work here!!!!!"

As I walked back to my office, those words rang true......I am so blessed to work here.  I really am, but you know what?  Where God has you working.......YOu are so blessed to work there too!

Have a great day!

]]> I got fouled! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/09/i-got-fouled Yesterday afternoon for the first time. I got to watch Trevor play in a college soccer game.  His Bryan Lions were playing the Bulldogs of TN Wesleyan.  Near the end of the first half Trevor was dribbling the ball down field near the goal when he got fouled and went crashing down.  He was ok, but it was enough of a foul to be called by the official.  What that means is that since Trevor was fouled in the box, his team got to take a penalty shot......one person kicks the ball at the goal with no one defending except the goal keeper.  One of Trevor's teammates scored tying up the game to what would be the final score 1-1.

This morning sort of the same thing happened on the air.  I received a message from one of our listeners and partners who said they could not give during this Friendraiser and felt guilty about it.  We shared their story (annyomously of course) on the air and many people gave on her behalf.

We all know people who are struggling financially.  Will you step up to the plate and give on their behalf?  You can by going to J103.com and clicking the "Donate Now" Banner, or call 877-262-J103.

]]> Friendraiser-Great Days Ahead Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/09/friendraiser-great-days-ahead I am so excited about the next three days!!!  Our Fall Friendraiser gives us an opportunity to speak with so many of our J103 Listeners.  We continue to play great music, and share many testimonies of those who God has touched and changed through J103......and then God impresses upon people to come in and pledge their financial support to keep it all going!

Thank you Lord for what you are going to do Tuesday-Thursday!

]]> Not many complaining about the rain Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/09/not-many-complaining-about-the-rain Because of the drought conditions and hot temperatures we have been experiencing in the TN Valley, the much needed rain has brought relief and from what I have heard-not many complaining.

In the past we have had our share of flooding in our area, and many fight the urge to complain and gripe.

Normally, running a race in the rain is kind of depressing, but I read reports from runners in the FCA 5K yesterday that said the rain brought cooler temperatures and made the run that much better.

I saw a news report yesterday about some of the area fundraising BBQ's that were making the best in the wet conditions, but no one was complaining and from the sound of their sales-people were still getting out to purchase some great pulled meat.

My family at home (which now consists of me, Amy and Chipper), stayed in for the most part and enjoyed relaxing on the couch and watching TV.

With my hectic schedule-no complaining here!






]]> Why is it so hard to take a day off or a vacation day? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/09/why-is-it-so-hard-to-take-a-day-off-or-a-vacation-day You work hard long hours, (I know-I put in 5 12 hour days a week), and you earn time off, or (as in this weekend) a holiday approaches.

What do you have to accomplish before you can, in good conscience, leave the office behind?  If you are like me, you want to double check to make sure everything is lined up and ready to go.

If I didn't make sure everything was in place and running smooth in my workplace world, I would never be able to relax and enjoy some time off.

You may be someone who, after a couple of days off, return to a mountain of work that has accumulated and you have to work 10 times harder (and maybe longer) to get it all done.

I am reminded of a sermon Andy Stanley preached when I was a youth pastor.  He said, "There is not enough time to get it all done!"  He is right.  You can never spend enough time with your family.  You can never spend enough time at work, but you only have 24 hours each day and 8 of that is supposed to be sleeping and resting/recharging (I get by usually on 5 hours).  What happens is-we have to cheat.

Where do you cheat?  A wise pastor-friend once told me-"Ted, you are the only father your kids will ever have, and you should be the only husband Amy ever has.  Every church you have ever served has had a youth pastor before you and when you leave they will find another-but you are the only one your family will have."

I'm not suggesting you slack off at work.  On the contrary, I am a work-a-holic and belive to represent Christ we must work hard and meet our employers expectations, but.......we must make sure we are balancing our family time and not just giving them what is "left over"

Enjoy the Labor Day weekend, spend time with the family-You deserve it!   And then.......Get back to work on Tuesday!!!!

]]> Don't Know What to Do Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/dont-know-what-to-do I firmly believe that God loves the sinner but hates the sin.

On the morning show (and J103 as a whole), we want to discuss things that will uplift the body of Christ, and beyond that give you something to talk about with your families and coworkers.  Topics like "did you see who got voted off of Dancing with the Stars" is prevalent in many a workplace.  That is why we talk about some of those type things on the air.  At the same time we try to stay away from those things that detract from the body of Christ.

I don't know what to do about this yet, (I am praying for direction). I watch Dancing with the Stars. To me if is really incredible to take someone with no dancing experience at all and transform them into ballroom dancers.  It takes en extreme amount of patience and sacrifice.  With that said, it is a dancing show and my votes are based on who the best dancers are.  In past seasons I have not voted for my favorite because I didn't think they were the best dancer that night.

This seasons line up has just been announced.  I have an issue with one of the cast-Chaz Bono.  It is sad, that this daughter of Sonny and Cher felt it neccessary to have operations to change her gender.  She/He is now an advocate for a lot of things that go against what God teaches in His Word.

Should I boycott the show this season and not watch?  However, also on the show is Chyna Phillips of the Christian music duo Chyna and Vaughn.  Once saved, Chyna has become a vocal spokesman for Christianity and family values.

Should I watch and talk about how she did each night or not talk about it because of Bono.

Don't get me wrong.  I know God loves Chaz Bono.  He just doesn't like his lifestyle, of course his "sin" is no different than any of my "sins" in God's eyes.

God, I seek your answer and peace.

]]> Positive-Negative Reinforcment Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/positive-negative-reinforcment I made another conscious effort to drop some weight.  I have been in the gym for three days in a row now, cranking out an hour of cardio and about 45-60 minutes of lifting each day.  I have been taking Chipper with me, (he didn't make it yesterday-he couldn't get out of bed he was so sore!)

Yesterday I finished my cardio and was walking towards the free weights area and i ran into a fellow "body-builder" I have known on a "friendly-wave and smile" basis for a couple of years.  He walked up to me and said "Good to see you back in here.....looks like "mama" has been feeding you well."

In other words-Wow-you look like a Beached whale!

I was tellig my wife Amy about it and she got a little upset and mad about his comments.  She said, "that was a terrible thing to say."  I didn't take it that way.  One of the things I feel God has given me is real tough skin.  I take criticism well, and that comment yesterday at the gym didn't anger me instead it gave me a greater resolve to not skip any workouts and make sure I am skipping the food I don't need to eat!

Will see if he "eats those words" in a few short weeks.

Thank You God for the encouragement.

]]> Say Something Nice Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/say-something-nice I can see why the Improv Everywhere Youtube video "Say Something Nice" went viral.  If you haven't seen it-here is the premise:  A portable podium is set up on a street corner.  On the podium is a sign that says "Say Something Nice" and on top of the podium is a bullhorn with the microphone on.  No other instructions-no supervisors.  The microphone is for anyone at anytime to step up and say something nice to all those present at that time.  Check it out below.

We did that this morning on the morning show and it started our Monday off in a great way.

Don't let it be just on a video or on the radio.....all day long, everytime you have the opportunity......Say Something Nice.





]]> Great Food Truck Race-we are making a difference Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/great-food-truck-race-we-are-making-a-difference Yesterday Christian Siler, the owner of the Southern Burger Company Food Truck stopped by to talk about the Food Networks Great Food Truck Race and how they have an opportunity to win a spot on next season's show.

We have been encouraging our listeners to go to the Foodnetwork.com and vote for them.

Before the morning show they were in 40th place out of 250 food trucks.  After the show they had risen to 39th.  Let's keep going to the site and voting each day.  You get 10 votes each day and you can give them all 10 of your votes at one time when you log on.

Let's put our local boys on the national scene!

]]> GOAL!!!!!!!!!!! Absence makes the heart grow fonder Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/goal-absence-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder Yesterday Amy and I debated driving back to Dayton to watch Lauren's college team play the first game of the season.  Last year they had defeated this same team 8-0 and it was questionable if any of the starters were going to get to play.

We went.......and boy was I glad we did!  The starters did start.  Lauren has earned her spot among the starters for the first time in college.  So her first college varsity start, in the first half, she gets a good cross (that's soccer talk for "a ball kicked from one side of the field to close to the middle of the goal.)  Lauren was there and headed (hit the ball with her head) into the corner of the net!  It was beautiful!!!!

Lauren's first varsity start and she scores the first goal of the season for the Byran Lady Lions!!!!!  I am one proud papa.

We also took with us Trevor's dog Oakley.  Trevor met us there (he is proud of his sister too), and gave us a big hug when we walked up.

Chipper has his first Cross Country Meet of the season this afternoon.

The Fall has begun!!!!!!

]]> 2 Down-1 To Go! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/2-down-1-to-go God blessed us with a great day Saturday as we moved Trevor into his dorm at Bryan College.  It ws a great opportunity to see how much he appreciated me and his mom.  He posted on his FB that evening how much he loved and thanked us.  He said he could not be where he is today if it hadn't been for us.  That made us proud.

We also got to watch Lauren play in a scrimmage game against some alumni soccer players.  Her team won and it was great to see her on the field doing what she loves.  After the game and after Trevor's student/parent orientation we got to take Lauren to get something to eat.  It was nice spending some time with her.  She has matured so much.

After we dropped Lauren off back at her dorm and began to drive down the hill off of campus I took one last look at Trevor's window (I knew it was his because of the big inflatable hot dog and purple alien-I don't know-silly student thing I guess), I couldn't help but thank God for blessing me with three great kids.

I came home, and cleaned Trevor's room (it actually wasn't that bad), and cleaned the upstairs bathroom.  I told Chipper when he got back from FCA XC camp that the bathroom upstairs was all his-that was the good news.  The bad news?  The bathroom upstairs is all his!  That means he is in charge of cleaning it now.  Don't want to clean it?  Don't mess it up!

Chipper is going to get the feeling of being an only child for three years.  God help us!  LOL!

]]> Empty Nest??? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/empty-nest Tomorrow afternoon, Amy and I will have our first taste of what 3 years from now is going to be like.

In the morning we move Trevor into his dorm at Bryan College.  Lauren has been there for two weeks.  Chipper is leaving tonight for a FCA campout and won't be back until Sunday.

When Amy and I get home tomorrow afternoon we will be "child-at-home-less." 

I have joked for years at how I am "looking forward to the empty nest."  Amy I were married only 14 months before Lauren came along-so we never really had much time just as a couple.  So there is a part of me that is looking forward to the two of us being able to focus on just each other.

But......

I have to admit, for the first time, that it is sinking in-our kids are growing into adults and moving on with their lives.  We have tried (and failed many times) to raise our three kids up the way God would have us.  We know that they are His kids and we were just entrusted to raise them.

Now we pray that they remember all God has taught them through us.

Oh, I forget.....Chipper will be back home Sunday afternoon, and will be there for at least three more years!

Thank you God for my kids!

]]> I don't know why it bothers me... Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/i-dont-know-why-it-bothers-me I don't know why it bothers me but Saturday Amy and I drove by the first house we bought.  When God moved us to the North Georgia/TN Valley area we first lived in the church's parsonage.  After a year or so He led us to a beautiful home that was very-well taken care of by some friends from church.

We purchased it, moved in and made it our home for years.  We have fond memories of that house.  It is where we brought Chipper home from the hospital when he was born.  I can still remember the large wooden stork I had placed in the front yard.  Our kids had slumber parties, birthday parties, and baseball parties there.  My Dad came and helpled me build a clubhouse for my kids to play in.  We buried beloved pets in the back yard.  I even remember me and the kids putting together a "time capsule" and burying it somewhere in the yard.

Amy put a lot into the flowers and landscaping.  I loved our grass...It was zosia and like walking on carpet.

It was home.

God blessed us with the home we have lived in now for the last 6 years.  It got to the point where that first house was to small for our needs, and we were so excited to make the five minute move.  I have to admit though, because of all the memories and sentimental value that first house had it was a little sad to leave.

Fastforward to this past Saturday.  Amy had driven by the house over the years and had noticed the new owners didn't spend as much time in the yard as we had.  This Saturday it looked really bad.  The grass was more than knee high.  There were bare spots in the yard where they had parked their vehicles.  There was a huge Bradford pear tree that had split and was laying in the yard.  In fact, you could barely see the house from the street.

I managed to see a piece of paper on the front door.  I got out and walked up onto the porch to see that the house was now abandoned.

It really upset Amy and I.  I feel so bad for the owners who felt like they had to leave this house that was our home.  When we sold it we both hoped they would take care of it  love it and have a happy home like we had.

It is sad to see it in the current condition.  I guess I am more sentimental than I thought.

]]> Back in the Pressbox tonight! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/back-in-the-pressbox-tonight I have to admit, it is going to be a little "different" calling the first Heritage High School Football Game tonight when school doesn't start for another couple of weeks.

I am loving the (return to) new school schedule-starting after Labor Day.  I grew up in the day where Summer was from Memorial Day to Labor Day.  It gave you a full three months of school.

I don't know why we ever started shortening the summers, (I know it has to do with someone's research stating that kids didn't retain much knowledge over the summer-and that may be true.)

There are many benefits, the way I see it, to a full summer vacation.  I can imagine the millions of dollars it saves a school system because they don't have to cool the buildings for a complete month.  I know that places that hire high school students for the summer really miss out if they go back to school before the summer starts.

The best thing about summer vacation for me was just chilling out!  Sleeping in, going on family vacations, playing outside with my friends-recharging for the school year!

I hope we never go back to the longer school calendar!

]]> Henry Cho on morning show tomorrow Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/henry-cho-on-morning-show-tomorrow A great Christian who is a Comedian Henry Cho, (a previous guest on the am show), will be joining me via telephone again tomorrow.

Henry is a Christian who is a comedian and not a "Christian Comedian."  He (and I love) Christian Comedians, but Henry is a clean comedian.

Henry has been following God's guidance and leading in professional comedy for over 35 years.  He has been on The Tonight Show, Late Night w David Letterman, and all of the others.  He has appeared in various TV shows as well.  Through all of this he has kept his Christian testimony intact. 

He was once told by George Lopez that he wouldn't be able to keep up the "clean bit" for very long. Henry has proved him wrong.

Listen tomorrow and if you are looking for something to do with your spouse tomorrow or Saturday nights-check out the Comedy Catch and Henry Cho.




]]> 2nd Time is a lot easier Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/2nd-time-is-a-lot-easier We moved Lauren back into her dorm at Bryan College yesterday.  As I was hauling boxes up the flight of stairs I flashed back to last year where I was doing the same thing.  Last year was so different though.  I can remember taking everything in-being the protective father-looking for fire exits, extinguishers, security on the doors, and of course checking the rules for guys on the floor.

I remember Lauren's nervousness over moving in with a roommate she had never met.  She was wondering what it was going to be like to "live on her own."

I remember sitting down with her and Amy at lunch after one of a few Wal-mart runs, and praying asking God for his protection and provision.

He gave both!!!  This year I didn't even think about fire exits, extinguishers, etc.  (I did check to make sure the same "guys on floor" policies were in tact).

Lauren and her roommate have become friends and had such a good time last year that they are rooming together again.

While we were unloading the boxes and setting up her side of the room, several of the upper classmen soccer teammates came in and welcomed Lauren and her roommate back.  One of them asked, "So how is it coming back as Sophomores compared to last year?"

It was neat to hear Lauren share how peaceful it was this time around.

In just a few short weeks we will be moving Trevor into his first college dorm (also at Bryan College).  It will be different, I know.  Trevor and his roomate, Jake, have been friends for years, and.....Trevor is a guy....it's different.  I am not near as nervous.

Now, how to deal with our "only chilld at home-Chipper!"

]]> World's Largest Yard Sale Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/worlds-largest-yard-sale The World's Largest Yard Sale kicks off today and goes through several states along Hwy 27. 
My wife loves yard sales.  She talks about the thrill of finding a bargain.
I would rather slam my fingers in a car door than go to a yard sale.
The only thing worse than going to a yard sale......Having a yard sale!
I would rather slam all my fingers in a car door than host one of those.
People show up at your door before daylight asking if you are open yet.  "Ma'm, I'm still in my pajamas, it's dark, do you see the garage door open and the tarps pulled off of the tables?"
Wow!  And how about when you have something priced at 25cents and they want to bargain with you?  Unbelievable!
If you are heading to the World's Largest Yard Sale this weekend-Have Fun! and I won't mind.......if you don't think of me!  LOL!

]]> Pressure Washing a Dog House and other "miracles" Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/pressure-washing-a-dog-house-and-other-miracles Last week while on Staycation at home, I was pressure washing our fence.  Amy looked under our back deck and asked if I could get rid of the two faded, algae covered doghouses that were left from a couple of previous pets.

I pulled the smaller one out.  It is a two piece "normal doghouse" style house like you have seen at stores.  I used the pressure washer and was amazed at how clean it got.

I then pulled out the bigger, heavier Doggloo type house.  It is about the biggest doghouse I have ever seen of this type and it was nasty-dirty.  It was literally green, brown and black.

I began to pressure wash it and was blown away that it was actually white beneath all of the filth.  It then became a fascination with me to see how clean I could get it.  It took about 45 minutes but it looks brand new.  When I finished the doghouses and went back to the fence I noticed I had really small white flakes on my legs.  It was pieces of fiberglass that the pressure washer had blown off of the doggloo while giving it a deep cleaning.

Our lives are like that.  We carry around the filth of the world-our sins and failures.  They discolor our lives and give us an appearance that we were'nt created to have.

When you give your life to Jesus, He uses His Holy Pressure Washer and removes all of that sin and shame.  Sometimes it cuts deep-it has too because of how tight the sin is holding on-but it is neccessary.

Let God get a hold of your life-give your heart and life to him and see what He can do.  That will get you "out of the doghouse"

Now if I could just get our two outside dogs into the doghouses!

]]> Staycation=Rest and Relaxation Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/08/staycationrest-and-relaxation Update from my Staycation last week.  First a good definition of a staycation:  a period of time off from work where someone enjoys leisurely time at home.  My wife, Amy's definition of a staycation:  a period of time Ted has off from work where I can get all of the home chores and projects complete!!!!  Just kidding (sort of)! 

My week off from work was a great one.  I did accomplish some projects that needed to be done:  pressure washing both sides of our entire privacy fence-looks brand new now and not like an algae farm.  Trimmed the Knock out roses in the front flower bed-they will really bloom now.  Cleaned out old firepit and set it up with two new "temporary" chairs-(if you know any place I can purchase real aiderondike chairs let me know).

I did manage to sneak in some "down time" also.  I didn't get out of bed until 8am at the earliest.  That day I took Chipper to cross country practice and ran a mile myself.  We went and saw a couple of movies, celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary with a gift card to Hennens, but the best part was being able to stay up late watching TV and hanging out with Amy and the kids and not worrying about how little sleep I was going to get because I was going to have to get up early.

I say all that to say-it's important to take some time off every once in a while and clear your head, but I am so thankful God has called me to join with you during your morning routine!

]]> Why Does God make them so cute? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/07/why-does-god-make-them-so-cute I feel, most of the time, I live in a kennel.  I grew up with one dog.  I love dogs, but I only believe a family ought to have 1 at a time.  Take care of it, have it fixed, feed it, play with it, let it become a member of the family.

Well, my wife grew up in a home where dogs were not allowed, so now....she feels like she has to have all of them!!!!  We currently have 1 Chihauaha, 1 Chug (Chihauaha/Pug mix) and it's offspring, and........6 month old........Oakley!!!

Oakley is a wimerrimer, and is all puppy!  He is so playful and big. 

This past weekend he has also been sick.  Now to my wife's credit, she has taken the majority of the responsibility taking care of him, so she had to clean up a lot of doggy puke this weekend.

Just when I was sitting thinking about how it will be 10-12 years until all of the dogs in my house will pass on, Amy sends me the following picture....
Our newest Family Member Oakley

]]> Me, Chipper and Lou Ferrigno Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/07/me-chipper-and-lou-ferrigno Below is a picture of myself, my youngest son Chipper and The Incredible Hulk and multi-Mr. Olympia winner Lou Ferrigno.

(Oh!.....Lou is the one in the middle!)

]]> Made Chipper's Day! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/07/made-chippers-day I was able to introduce my youngest son Chipper to Lou Ferigno, (The Incredible Hulk)!

He was the guest speaker at the Athens Area Chamber of Commerce Benefit Dinner this past Saturday.  Rob Preston, the CC director, asked me to come and be the emcee for the evening.

We arrived just as the VIP's were finishing getting their pictures taken.  We came in the library there at the McMinn County High School and was introduced to Lou.  He is a monster of a man (size wise), but a Gentle Giant in spirit.

While we were waiting for the dinner to begin, Chipper and I got to hang out with him for 45 minutes.  It was really cool.

Lou Ferigno lost a good bit of his hearing due to ear infections when he was a baby.  He and Chipper shared a lot in common, both suffering from hearling loss.

It really made Chipper's Day!  Pictures are coming soon!

]]> Great Time at Dollywood Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/07/great-time-at-dollywood One of the perks of working on J103 and doing remotes is I get to enjoy the Dollywood and Splash Country tickets that so many people are trying to win.

This past week we were blessed to be able to do that.  I was reminded of why people really want to win those so bad.

Very seldom do Amy and I get to get away with all three of our kids for any period of time.  We had a great time reconnecting and making memories.

It almost brought a tear to my eye when, walking with my daughter Lauren, I mentioned that it wouldn't be long before our family won't be just the five of us.  In the next 10 years we will probably have son and daughter-in-laws and quite possibly grandkids joining us on these trips.

Time does fly!  I can remember taking my three little ones to hotel pools and watching them splash around in the kiddie pools.  Now they are young adults and making their own decisions.

One thing I don't miss however!.........changing swim diapers!!!!

]]> Curtains, bed shams, comforters and other things college guys don't care about Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/07/curtains-bed-shams-comforters-and-other-things-college-guys-dont-care-about Last night we had dinner with the Raines.  Damon, Patty and their son Jake have been friends of ours/Trevor's for years.

Jake and Trevor are going to be college roomies at Bryan College, so we met last night to discuss who was had what and who was going to get the: microwave, refrigerator, etc.

We could tell that Trevor and Jake.....could really care less!  They are excited about going off to college-Big Time!  But all the logistical info doesn't matter to them.

When talking about sheets, blankets, comforters for his bed, Trevor told me he would be happy with a new sleeping bag.

I am excited to see them begin to stretch their wings! 

I am proud of my son!

]]> I'm Going to Dollywood!!!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/07/im-going-to-dollywood Wednesday morning after the am show, I am packing the family in the J103 Prize Cruiser and heading to Dollywood and Splash Country for a couple of days.

We will be broadcasting from Dollywood's main gate on Thursday, from 4-7pm.  Come on by and see us.  Spin the Prize Wheel and win some great prizes!

With the economy the way it is, I feel families pain and this is our vacation too!

Dollywood and Pigeon Forge/Gatlinburg is a great place to spend a vacation (I did it every summer growing up).

Come see us!

]]> Bucket List Change Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/07/bucket-list-change Well today I am forced to change my bucket list for the first time ever.  One of the five things on my bucket list was to see a Space Shuttle Launch Live.  I was close once, but missed it by a few days.  This time around (the last launch-scheduled for later this morning), I was even offered a free use of a time share by one of our listeners.  Due to finances, and job responsibilities we just couldn't make it.

So, after today the Space Shuttle Program is obsolete.  I am told that when a rocket goes up into space it has the same feel as one of the shuttles, so I am changing my bucket list to say Watch a rocket launch live.

Surely they will keep launching rockets for some time!

What else is on my bucket list?  To go to Australia, to go to Hawaii, to pray with an active living President and the only one I've completed so far-to compete in a Body Building Show (which I did two years ago!)

What's on your bucket list?

]]> My Opinion on the Casey Anthony Verdict? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/07/my-opinion-on-the-casey-anthony-verdict Most of the United States and many places in the world are discussing the not guilty verdict of the Casey Anthony verdict.  Most people think she did kill her 2 year old daughter Callie and got away with it.

Becasue of the laws of our land, (which protect us), she may have gotten away with murder, but a jury of her peers found her not-guilty.  To find someone guilty you have to be able to prove beyond a "reasonable doubt" that they have committed a crime.  That was not able to be done therefore she is can not be held accountable here on earth for those accusations.  If she did get away with it then one day she will stand before God and answer those charges.

As I read God's Word, it is not my role to judge her.  She was found "not guilty" by our courts, therefore I must treat her that way.  To see the people outside the courtroom with signs that say "Baby Killer" and hurling threats to her, her family and the jurors to me is so sad.

I have to stop and think......As a follower of Christ how would God want me to treat her?  Substitute her for the woman who was caught in adultry that was brought to Jesus-don't the rocks still hit the ground?

What should our action be?  Prayer and forgiveness.....The Lord knows I need it regularly! 

]]> If it sounds to good to be true..... Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/07/if-it-sounds-to-good-to-be-true My son, Trevor, has once again learned the life lesson:  "It is sounds to good to be true-it probably is."

He decided to take his graduation money and order a laptop for use at college.  (I am so proud-smart decision!)  He went to the Dell website and saw a promotion that led you to belive if you order a laptop you would receive a "free" XB0X 360 game console.

He already has a Xbox but thought he would sell it and help pay for his books.  We sat down and went through the process of online ordering.  Everything seemed fine until he received his email order confirmation and saw he was being charged $213 for the "free" Xbox.

I called today, and after talking to several foreign countries learned that it wasn't a "free" XBox but a "Bundled" XBox-translation?   You just bought a XBox too!

In life, I am sure he is going to learn this lesson many times over, but there is one thing that sounds to good to be true........and it is!

Jesus Christ loves us so much that He gave His life so that we could have eternal life.  He paid the price for my sin.  I don't have to suffer the consequences of my sin-Jesus did.

That is to good to not be true!

Oh by the way......Trevor is sending the computer and XBox back and will order another one, (seems like they could just take back the XBox and refund the money-but no-he has to send it all back and reorder-something about "bundled price").  Unless someone wants to buy a new XBox for..........$500????? LOL!

]]> Strong Foundation Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/06/strong-foundation This weekend, my buddy Justin came over and helped me recast 3 of our Privacy fence posts.  They had become loose over the years and especially after the April 27 Tornado.

As we pulled the three posts out of the ground we noticed that the amount of concrete was insufficient.  To me it looked like the original fence installers had dug a 6 inch hole, mixed up a wheelbarrow of concrete and "dipped" the posts in it-like you would pretzels in chocolate.  There was not much concrete anchoring the posts into the ground.

It reminds me of those who give their lives to Christ and then fail to spend time in His Word every day.  You just don't have much anchoring your Christian life down.

Get into God's Word and go deep!

]]> I'm Back! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/06/im-back I am sahamed that I have not blogged since Memorial Day????  Wow!  I've been sort of busy with JFEST and then Riverbend.  My son Trevor graduated in there also.  We've been a little preocupied.

I do want to share with you some of my thoughts about our minsitry at Riverbend.  For years, we would cruise in, set up our booth and have a great time at Faith and Family Night.  But each year when we would pull out of the Riverfront area late into the night, I was struck with the feeling that the Christian Radio Station needed to be there all week.  So this year began that tradition.

We gave away J103 Koozies.  That's right, those little neoprene sleeves people put their beers in to keep them cool and their hands dry and warm.

Why would a Christian radio station give away koozies???  Are we endorsing alcohol?  NO way!  What we were doing was serving those who were at Riverbend and showing them that we were not there to judge them but to love on them.

We had several opportunities each night to share the plan of Salvation using the Witness Wear Bands that were furnished by White Wing Christian Bookstore in Cleveland.  Most people would try to stick their beer down into the koozie and then realize there was something in it.  They would pull it out and put it into their pocket.  Some would pull this little wearable track and ask us what it was.  Then we would be able to share it with the 6-7 people gathered around.

Please pray for those who had seeds of Jesus Chist planted in their hearts.  I am praying for a great revival!

]]> A Memorable Weekend Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/05/a-memorable-weekend This Memorial Weekend we pay respect and honor to our veterans and those who paid the ultimate sacrifice to protect and defend our freedoms as Americans.  Thank you-who's family members have served so faithfully in our Armed Services.

This weekend is also Memorable for my family.  Our 2nd oldest child-Trevor will graduate from Heritage High School.  He will be heading, like his sister, to Bryan College on a soccer scholarship.  I am so proud of Trevor and all of the class of 2011.

Only 7 days until JFEST!!!!   Talk about Memorable!!!!!  Get your tickets now!  JFEST.com

]]> One Week Out, Two Weeks Out AND Three Weeks Out Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/05/one-week-out-two-weeks-out-and-three-weeks-out To say my life is hectic this next couple of weeks would be the understatement of the year.

In One Week is Trevor's High School Graduation.  We have family coming in from Louisville, so you can imagine all of the yard/house work that has to be done to welcome them.  Then there is Senior Honors Night, Baccaleaurate Service, and getting everything ready for a Graduation Party and to entertain the guests.

On the heels of that, (the very next Saturday), is JFEST!!!  There are tons of things that need to be accomplished between now and Saturday June 4!!!

After a couple of days to clean up from JFEST we set up on the Riverfront for Riverbend.  This year we have made a committment to be at Riverbend every night to minister and Shine the Light to those festival goers!

With this said.....I would welcome your prayers!!!!

Don't get me wrong-I am not complaining!  I am having the time of my life!!!  I am so proud of Trevor and excited to have our family coming to celebrate......AND......JFEST is one of my favorite weekends every year!  Riverbend is also going to be a great week for us to impact the Kingdom of God-People are going to give their lives to Jesus at both festivals!!!!

]]> Don't Blow Your Nose! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/05/dont-blow-your-nose In a couple of days I am going to share a health tip from Men's Health Magazine that says when you have a cold-don't blow your nose, because it just blows the mucus back into the sinus passages.  I know-Gross!  The tip goes on to say-instead of blowing your nose take a antihistamine and please wipe.

I have a minor cold, and I have been blowing my nose.  The article says that will only prolong my cold.  I have been taking the zicam to try to end it early.  

I tried to stop blowing my nose.......I can't!!!!!! 

]]> The Ultimate Invitation Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/05/the-ultimate-invitation Last night, Amy and I began helping Trevor with his High School Graudation invitations.  We wanted to be careful that no friends or family were left out.  Each one of the (overly priced) invitations sent to someone who cares a lot for Trevor and he cares for them.

It got me thinking about (how old i am-just kidding) how God gives us the ultimate invitation.  He sends it not to just a few-but to all.

That invitation is to accept Jesus' death on the cross to pay the penalty for our sinful nature and lives.  By accepting Christ's death as the payment for our sins, and asking Him to forgive us and come into our lives we accept the invitation that God sacrificed greatly for.

I hope you have accepted the invitation, and have given him, (not a check or monetary gift-although if you want to pass that along to Trevor-he has a tuition bill coming due!  Ha Ha), given him your life!

If you have.......I will see you there!

]]> Praying for students and teachers Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/05/praying-for-students-and-teachers This morning close to 4:30am I drove by Heritage Middle and High School and prayed for the Ringgold and Heritage students and faculty, who in just hours would be sharing the Heritage facility.

My students are Generals!  They love their school and have great pride about the facility they are blessed to have.

Ringgold students, I know-and rightfully so, are also proud of their tradition and their home just miles away.

But due to the tornado their schools are uninhabital so they will be sharing the facility half day.

I prayed for peace.  I prayed for flexibility.  I prayed for normalcy, and most of all I prayed for a continued show of cooperation and good will among the two schools.

]]> It could have been me Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/05/it-could-have-been-me "It could have been me...."  is a common phrase I am hearing among those who's lives and homes were spared from the damage of last week's Tornados. 

I am one of those.  My wife and I watched it blow by our house as we were sitting on the front porch.

There are a lot of questions that come to survivor's minds.  Call it survivor's guilt or whatever, God encourages me to take those thoughts captive. 

I am reminded what Jesus said in His Word....."Whatever you do unto the least of these.....you have done unto me."  Now, those of us who escaped the damage and loss we should keep busy reaching out and continue serving as the hands and feet of God to those who are suffering.

If you had been effected greatly how would you want your neighbors to treat you?

]]> I Spoke too soon Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/04/i-spoke-too-soon Yesterday I blogged at how all lives had been spared through the first round of storms.  I spoke too soon.

Last night, I sat on the porch and watched the "killer storm" go by our neighborhood and strike downtown Ringgold.  My neighborhood sits on a higher elevation than downtown Ringgold.

An hour before the tornado hit the pizza hut, I was sitting in the drive thru picking up some dinner for Trevor.  To see the pictures this morning of how bad it and everything around it was damaged-makes me really count my blessings.  God protected me and my family.

To see the full extent of damage through the aerial footage I have posted on my and the J103's Facebook makes me appreciate the awesome power of God.

In the days, weeks, months to come we need to do all we can to support, care and be the hands and feet of Christ.

]]> Not a Storm Chaser-they were chasing me! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/04/not-a-storm-chaser-they-were-chasing-me This morning in the studio there were so many storm warnings coming in at one time I felt like they were chasing me.

I thank God that we had no fatalities here in the TN valley as a result of the storm.  Seeing the pictures of the aftermath is quite amazing-Trees, decades old, big and strong, being blown over, the roots ripped from the ground!

We lost power to our transmitter site until our engineers could get there and get our "back-up generator" up and running.  The generator is supposed to come on when there is a power failure so because it did not means they will have to do a little work on it.

Please heed the warnings and be safe this afternoon and evening-the next wave of storms is supposed to be even stronger.

Praising God in the Storms!!

Ted

]]> Resurrection Weekend Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/04/resurrection-weekend I love Easter Weekend.  The times I have been on staff at various churches have been highlights of my life.  Maundy Thursday suppers, Good Friday services and dramas, Sunrise services and Easter pageants have all helped point me to the core of the reason for Easter.

My parents made sure we had Easter Baskets, candy, new clothes (to this day I am traumatized with clip on ties and matching my brothers), and all of the family fun Easter traditions like dyeing, hiding and searching for easter eggs, but they always made sure the focal point was the Ressurrection of Jesus Christ.

My prayer is that your family has a ball this weekend! but that you always remember that it was Jesus' death on the cross and God's resurrection of His Son that changed the world for all eternity.

Do you know Him?  Do you know why we celebrate this weekend?  I hope and pray you do.  If not-look to the cross......and to the empty tomb.

Happy Easter!

]]> I'm going to the Dove Awards!!!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/04/im-going-to-the-dove-awards For the first time in my over 20 year radio career I am getting to go to the Dove Awards, Christian Music's biggest night of the year.  We are leaving with our staff and spouses from J103 and a charter bus full of excited listeners.

Watch for us when the Dove Awards air on tv, Easter Sunday evening!  Will be the ones way up in the top of the balcony!  Really-that will be us!  You probably won't be able to see us, but listen for our claps.  I will be the last person clapping.

]]> Proud of my wife-Thankful to my God Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/04/proud-of-my-wife-thankful-to-my-god I am so proud of my wife.  She recently shared with me that she felt "like the odd-ball" in our somewhat athletic family.  My kids have always been baseball/softball/soccer/tennis/players and cross country runners.  She said that she wanted to train and run a 5K race.

Along came Run for God-an incredible program started by Mitchell Hollis in Dalton GA.  My church has started a Run for God small group and are meeting once a week for Bible Study and for training runs at least 3 times a week.

I have been running/walking with Amy and she is doing it!!!!!!  Really makes me proud!......and thankful.....to God for my wife and family and the health we have to be active.

You can get started......today!  Get out and walk!

]]> Inspiration Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/04/inspiration Wow, it's been a few weeks since I updated my blog.  I am so sorry.  I was blessed to take a week of staycation (where I presure washed, sanded and helped paint our deck).

Saturday morning, my wife and I were at the Praters Mill Run for God 5K race.  One of my rolls there that day was to cheer on each finisher as they approached the finish line.  It was so inspiring to see all of the runner's faces as they rounded the corner and could see the "prize."  Several threw their hands up in the air towards God and I could see them mouthing "Thank You" to our Heavenly Father who gave them the strength.  I also loved seeing the family members and friends with cameras, video cameras-capturing the moment while supporting their loved one-who (for many) had just completed their first race. It made my week.

There are a lot of paralells between running a race and living for Christ. God gives us the strength to run every day.  There are brothers and sisters in Christ cheering us on-providing encouragement.  Don't forget that!  You can do it!

You can also "do it" as far as running.  At JFEST this year we have partnered with Run for God to bring you the Run for God JFEST 5K.  Start "training" today.  (And don't let the word "training" scare you.)  My wife and I have joined the Run for God group at our church.  Last night we completed the first "workout" Here is how it went:  a brisk 5 minute warm up, followed by 60 seconds of jogging, then 90 seconds of walking, 60 seconds of jogging, etc. until we had been moving for 20 minutes.   Then we had a 5 minute walk cool down.

See, you can do it!  I encourage you to set a goal of running the Run for God JFEST 5K.  It will change your life.

]]> I was just taught a lesson by a 2 year old video clip Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/04/i-was-just-taught-a-lesson-by-a-2-year-old-video-clip This morning in gathering the celebrity birthday announcements to share during they 9:00 hour (like I always do), I learned that Brittains Got Talent star from 2009 Susan Boyle is celebrating her birthday today.  I watched the clip of when she first took the stage.  Everyone, (me included), took one look at her and already we had a preconceived notion of who she was, a dumpy, nobody with bushy eyebrows.  There was no way she was going to impress the judges, yet alone be any kind of a good singer.  The audience chuckled, the judges rolled their eyes......until.......she began to sing. The audience errupted with applause, the judges were stunned and moved with emotion.  I have to admit, I went through the same thing watching the video.  I got goose bumps, and then I was convicted.  God spoke to me and said, "Ted, how often do you judge like that?  How many times do you look at others and allow preconceived thoughts and opinions to form before you give them a chance?"

I need to be careful!  "Father forgive me."

Check out the video with this in mind and see if it doesn't move you too.






]]> Cupcakes for $1 Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/03/cupcakes-for-1 Yesterday my pastor, Dennis McNulty, preached on Jesus' parable of the servants who were entrusted with the talents.  At the conclusion of the service the offering plate was passed again and this time EVERYONE was encouraged to take out one brand new $1 dollar bill.  Young and old alike were encouraged to take our dollars and increase them by Easter Sunday morning.

My family (and Trevor's girlfriend) pooled our dollars and with the $6 Amy bought the ingredients and boxes and made spring cupcakes. We are selling them 4 for $4 in a nice gift box or .50 each.   Chipper went to a couple of doors in our neighborhood and sold two boxes, I have sold two boxes and 6 individual ones so far.  We have already trippled our initial "talent."

This is teaching my son Chipper (and the rest of us) the scriptures in a real applicable, relevant way, and it's fun too.  One of our first customers nicknamed them "Jesus cupcakes" because of the initial "Jesus dollar."  Remembering that is helping me fight off the temptation to sneak and eat one!!!!!!

Want a cupcake?

]]> Gospel makes an appearance on Survivor Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/03/gospel-makes-an-appearance-on-survivor Last night on Survivor before one of the newly eliminated contestants was sent away she asked for permission to hand off her "luxury item" to the felow contestant that had just beat her in the elimination challenge.  Host Jeff Probst gave her permission and then asked what it was.....her Bible.  Matt, the contestant still competing is a vocal believer, Krista the young lady sent home also shared her faith and said that the two of them had decided that whoever won was in the Lord's will.  It is great to see faith fleshed out on a network TV show!
Now if we could just get someone on Dancing to the Stars to work their routine around Echoing Angels song-Say What you Believe!

]]> Today I will be Brief Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/03/today-i-will-be-brief Today I will be brief.........Today is the First Day of Spring!!!!!!  The only day I like better is.......the First Day of Summer!!!  God is blessing us with incredible weather!  Go outside and play!

]]> Sticks Closer than a Brother Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/03/sticks-closer-than-a-brother This morning I saw a web-news story from Japan that really touched my heart-strings.  A reporter and his cameraman were in a devasted tsnumai stricken village.  It was abandoned.  There was trash and rubble everywhere, and in this little trash-strewn area were two dogs-one injured-both dirty, weather-weary and hungry.

As the reporter would try to get closer to the injured dog-the other dog would bark and walk towards the man as if to say, "Get away from my friend."  The story has a happy ending-both dogs were rescued and are in an animal hosptal getting the medical care they need.

It reminded me of the Bible verse that tells us how Jesus is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

You are that kind of friend also.  Last week in our Spring Shareathon we had nearly 600 listeners who became partners and pledged to support this ministry financially.

If you missed the chance to give these last few days you can log onto the homepage and make a pledge or call during office hours 423-892-1200 and give your support.

Thank you friend.

]]> The Purple Flowers are gone Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/03/the-purple-flowers-are-gone Yesterday afternoon I mowed the yard for the first time this season.  It is bittersweet.  I am a summer boy so when the trees start blooming and the grass begins turning green it means the warm and longer days are coming.  That is excites me!

The fact that I now have to cut grass each week does not.

But such is life.  I thank God that I have a yard to mow, the health to mow it, and that He gives me a sense of accomplishment and gratitude when I am finished and can look at the beautiful manicured lawn.

So, fire up that mower and don't look at it as a chore.....look at is as a blessing and a priviledge.......and if you see me mowing.....remind me!

]]> Proud of My Boy! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/03/proud-of-my-boy This afternoon Trevor, my son who is a senior captain for the Heritage High School Soccer Team, will sit down a HHS tablecloth covered table in the media center and flanked by his mom and dad, with his current coach and future coach standing behind him, sign the paper accepting an offer from Bryan College to come and play for their Lion's team next season.

This is like lighting striking twice in the same place for this father.  Last year my daughter Lauren did the exact same thing and for the exact same incredible college.

Bryan College has been a wonderful institution of higher learning for her.  She has thrived this year academically, socially as well as spiritually.

I am proud of Trevor, like Lauren, not just for their competiveness on the soccer field, but because they sought God's will for His future.

]]> How important are Cheerleaders to sports? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/02/how-important-are-cheerleaders-to-sports I have always known that cheerleaders can impact the way a game turns out.  When a crowd is fired-up and cheering their team on-that team plays with more intentsity.

Yesterday a cheerleader from my alma mater, The University of Louisville, almost impacted the game against #4 Pittsburg in a negative way.

My #16 UofL Cardinals were on the verge of upsetting the Big East leaders Pitt Panters.  With less than a few seconds, one of the Louisville players (Kyle Kuric) got the ball and went down court to score making it a five point lead.  The clock continued to run down and with .5 of a second left the cheerleaders began to celebrate on the court.  One male cheerleader picked up the basketball and tossed it up into the air-prompting a delay of game techincal foul.

Pitt scored both of the free throws and had possession of the ball with .5 seconds on the clock.  They inbounded the ball and made a full-court shot which missed.

Many people are calling for the male cheerleader's head.  I like what UofL Basketball coach Rick Pittino said in his press conference-"It was an accident, a mistake, but he needs to learn the rules of Basketball."

I agree Coach Pittino-he made a mistake in the heat of the moment and I believe he has suffered enough-just don't let him near the ball!  Go Cardinals!!!!





]]> Life Changes Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/02/life-changes As the Sands of the Hourglass.....so are the Days of our Lives......goes the popular theme to the old soap opera.

It is true though-nothing we can do can stop or even slow down our lives.  Each second signifies one less second in our life.  With life comes changes.

My family is facing one of those life changes-Now don't get worried, I'm not going anywhere, no one is sick or in trouble.  We just have an opportunity we are dealing with.  I will share at a later date.

For some-the change we are facing can bring nervous sleepless nights or lots of worry, but I thank God for the peace He has given me.  I can't explain it....I guess that is why the hymn writer describes it as "The Peace that Passes all Understanding." 

Oh, one more thing about the sands of the hourglass-God knows and cares about each grain/moment of my life and I am in His hands.
You are too!

]]> I will have two Bryan Lions! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/02/i-will-have-two-bryan-lions Trevor received a phone call from his High School Soccer Coach, Steven Bruce last night.  The Bryan College Soccer Coach wants Trevor to come and play for the Lions!  He scheduled Trevor's signing ceremony for Thursday, March 3rd!
We are two proud parents!  And so thankful to God for providing this direction and financial provision.
Looks like my evenings at Bryan College watching Laruen and the women's team play just got a little longer!

]]> Extreme Update Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/02/extreme-update Everyone is so excited about the Extreme Makeover Home Edition Project that is going on just a couple minutes away from our studios here at J103.  In the mornings on my way in I can see the glow from all the construction lights.

As of 10am Tuesday, the old hous is gone, the new foundation is laid and the poured foundation walls are being craned in and put in place.

By the end of today the floor should be installed and framing will begin.  All in all they are about 1 hour behind.  That's not bad.

I am excited to be brocasting from the build site Thursday morning.

Let's continue to pray for safety for all the workers and volunteers at the build site.  Let's also continue to pray that through this incredible event God is glorified here in our city as well as when the show airs late April-early May.

Please help us spread the word about the Big Heart Shares Benefit Concert this Friday night with Echoing Angels.  Admission is only 5 non-perishable food items, which will go towards the 310,000 pound goal!

Big Goal-but our God is a Big God!

]]> Just call me Christiana Aguilera Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/02/just-call-me-christiana-aguilera OK, I have never sang the National Anthem at the Super Bowl.  The biggest venue I have ever sang it at was a Chattanooga Lookouts Game.

I have been singing the Star Spangled Banner since High School.  I currently sing it al all Ridgeland and Heritage home Basketball and soccer games.  I have messed up on the words from time to time.

The most humbling time I ever sang the National Anthem was at a Marine Corps JROTC ceremony.  I sang it with tons of emotion and tried to make it as dramatic as possible.  When I finished I was quite proud of myself.  The Colonel walked over to me, and I thought I was going to get a big "Ata Boy!"  Instead he looked at me and said "Ted, it took you longer to sing the National Anthem than it did to fight the war!"

That was an eye-opening moment from a man I highly repected.  Since then, I have made an effort to sing it like it was written, like it was intended.  It is one thing to add your own personal "flair" but you have to remember the most important part.....the lyrics and the melody.

Christiana Aguilera has an incredible God-given voice.  I wish she was using it more for the Glory of God though.

]]> I've got the Survivor Fever Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/02/ive-got-the-survivor-fever Tomorrow Tina Wesson the winner from Survivor Outback/Australia (The 2nd Season) is scheduled to join us on the morning show.

Tina's season was the first season I watched and as a result got addicted to this (at the time) original type of programming called "Reality TV."

I am curious to learn what she learned from her experience on the show.  We have received some good questions via our FB page that I will ask her tomorrow.

For many years I have said I would love to compete on the show, but as the years have gone by, the show seems to get meaner and more "cut-throat." I am going to ask Tina if she has noticed that herself.

I hope to "see you on the radio" tomorrow for Tina Wesson between 7:30 and 8:15.

]]> Its a Bird, It's a plane.......no.....it's just Ted Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/02/its-a-bird-its-a-planenoits-just-ted And yet another remake of the Superman character will be coming to theaters in 2012.  Henry Cavill (a British actor?-what's up with that) will portay the man of steel in the newest of the Superman movies.

For as long as I can remember I have always imagined how cool it would be to be Superman and fly.

Here is a pic of me and my kids when we were on staff at South Seminole Baptist Church........Oh well....I can at least pretend!

]]> Weather was such a tease! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/01/weather-was-such-a-tease Wasn't the warm weather we had this weekend such a tease???  Amy, Lauren and I were at a soccer tournament with Trevor in Knoxville yesterday, sitting in our bag chairs in the sunshine.  It felt great!  I have noticed on several people's facebook pages that they are now "ready for spring!"  Coincidence?  I think not!  Mark my words.....it will get cold again before April and we will probably have more of that awful white stuff.  The warm weather this weekend was just taunted us!  I love summer-can't you tell?

]]> Can't Believe it has been 25 years Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/01/cant-believe-it-has-been-25-years Today marks the 25th anniversary of the Space Shuttle Challenger Tragedy.  I can't believe it has been 25 years.

Like when the first reports came in from New York City on 911, most people can remember where they were when the Space Shuttle exploded on that clear blue winter mid-morning.

I was at the Baptist Student Union on the campus of the University of Louisville.  I had just finished eating an early lunch with friends there and was heading to a class.  The TV was on and students were lounging around, when the news cut in to regular programming to watch the launch.  (Do you remember when they used to cut in to regular programming anytime the President spoke or when a rocket launched?)  We all watched the Shuttle successfully clear the launch pad and head up towards their destination and mission.  Suddenly, it exploded into a cloud of smoke.  I remember being stunned and everyone was silent.  The Ping Pong games stopped.  The talking ceased, suddenly the four couches in front of the wall mounted TV were filled with college students in shock.

After an hour or so we walked into the chapel and had a time of prayer.
I can't remember it has been 25 years.

]]> Lazy Weekend and Facebook Debate Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/01/lazy-weekend-and-facebook-debate This weekend-I accomplished......nothing.......except a lot of sleep.  I'm not sure why but I was exhausted this weekend.  I got to sleep in until about 10am Saturday, got up helped Amy clean up the house and then we sat down to watch TV and fell asleep for a 2 hour nap.  We got up fixed supper, and then sat back down in front of the tube and fell back asleep.  Sunday I got up, went to church, taught Sunday School, went out to eat with some friends, and then we came back home and vegged out again.  I do feel pretty good today though!  I guess our bodies tell us from time to time when we need weekends like that.

This morning we continued our conversation on Facebook.  This morning-should parents be "friends" with their kids on Facebook?  Good comments.

]]> To Facebook or not to Facebook-that is the question Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/01/to-facebook-or-not-to-facebook-that-is-the-question We had some great discussion on Facebook this morning.  It is apparent that good things and bad things can come from Facebook.  I have seen families torn apart because of hurtful things said on the social network and yet I have seen people come to know the Lord through posts, comments, and videos.

One caller said it best when he said, guns don't kill people, food doesn't kill people.  It takes someone to pick up the gun and do something horrific with it.  It takes someone to pick up food and overeat for it to be harmful. 

Facebook and other social networks are the same.......It can be addicting, or it can be controlled.

Hope you are listening to your family when they say, "Dad, will you go do..........with us today?"  And then don't forget to sign off-(A lesson I have learned with my boys-if I walk away from the computer with my Facebook account opened-there is no telling what my status will say!)

]]> Night and Day Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/01/night-and-day The snow storm and the week of school closings on the heels of Christmas Vacation have made me notice some of the real differences in my boys.  Trevor, my high school senior, is ready to get back to school.  It is his senior year so I know he is ready to get his last semester started, but it goes deeper than that.  Trevor is a "go-getter."  He has to be moving.  He wants to be on the soccer field-doing something.  Chipper, on the other hand, is like night and day-he is excited that school has been closed this week.  Each day I shared the news that Catoosa County Schools would be closed the next day he got a big grin on his face and then would retreat to his room to battle the world's enemies on his X-Box.  Our daughter Lauren, the college freshman is somewhere in between.

It is so cool to see how unique God makes His children.
Are you ready to get things "back to normal?"  How about your kids?  I say......Come on Summer!

]]> We Have some Big Announcements to Make.... Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/01/we-have-some-big-announcements-to-make Tonight at WinterJam we are finally going to release the JFEST 2011 Line up!  We have had the line up confirmed for at least 2 months.  You are going to love it. 

We are also going to tell you how you could win a cruise with all your favorite artists.

And one of our favorite artists is going to join us to celebrate our 16th Birthday Party in March.

You like to run?  Maybe you are getting in shape as a part of your New Year's Resolutions.....Do we have an annoucement for you.....

From the WinterJam stage!!!!

]]> Happy New Year! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2011/01/happy-new-year It was great to be back on the Morning Show today.  I actually woke up about 30 minutes before my alarm went off.  I hope you have a great Christmas/New Years season with your family.  We did.  Suprised that my boys still have another week off from school (Catoosa County).  Lauren will go back to Bryan College next week also.  Today I head home and take down the Christmas tree and the rest of the Christmas lights, then to the Sports Barn to get Fit by JFEST!  Why don't you join me!

]]> Merry Christmas! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/12/merry-christmas It is Thursday morning and I am just about done with the Christmas Eve-Eve Show.
The next couple of days are going to be a little different.
I'll be with you tomorrow morning for the Christmas Eve edition of the morning show, then I will be moving to the Ride Home next week so I can sleep in and spend some time with my kids next week.
Mike will be filling in for me next week (pray for him as he gets up early and makes the drive in from Cleveland).  I will be "driving you home".  Things will be back to normal the following week just in time to get real excited about a Great Winter Jam January 7.  (Don't forget to get the canned fruit to support the morning show!-despite what you may hear from Brett or Mike!).

I hope you and your family has a truly wonderul, incredible, fun, Christ-filled Christmas!
Thanks for all your support of J103!  We are so excited to see what God is going to do in 2011!

]]> Ready for Christmas? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/12/ready-for-christmas "Honey, are we ready for Christmas?" I recently asked Amy.  She said we were, so Merry Christmas!  It is so funny how we divide the Holiday chores.  I decorate the majority of the house, Amy handles the shopping and wrapping and baking.
It is so nice to have my family all together for the holidays.  Merry Christmas from the Gockes!

]]> Christmas Creative Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/12/christmas-creative I spent about 6 hours yesterday evening putting the Christmas lights on the Gocke house.  After today I hope to have the bushes all lit up and the inflatables blown up.  Yes, you can say my middle name is Clark! (Griswold).  I guess deep inside I would love to put together a house like you see on Youtube.....all synced to music. 

Speaking of music, Justin Wade, our program director, showed me the following video that I had to share with you. It combines Christmas Creativity and Youtube.  Merry Christmas!





]]> A Radio DJ without a voice is like.... Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/12/a-radio-dj-without-a-voice-is-like I apologize for the way I have sounded the last two days.  I don't feel half as bad as I sound though.  Thanks for your prayers.  I never get sick, so when I do-I can be a wimp thinking it is the end of the world.  But to earn a living because of your voice and to then have that voice taken away or compromised for a little bit-leaves you feeling pretty useless!  I know that is not true however-God is able to do exceeding more good thorugh me than I could ever do on my own.....So......sorry for the voice......what you hear.....is what you got......(hopefully for not too much longer though!)

]]> 1,284 Children are going to hear about Jesus because of You! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/11/1284-children-are-going-to-hear-about-jesus-because-of-you
Our J103 Listeners truly blessed our socks off AGAIN! with your gifts to Operation Christmas Child.  Our goal this year was 1000 shoeboxes.  After the final count Monday evening at the Campbell Center at Life Care Centers of America-"Kelly handed the total.......1,284!  You exceeded the goal by 284 boxes!  Those are real kids that will be receiving a Christmas preseant for the first time in their lives and not only that but will be given the opportunity to respond to the Gospel of Jesus Christ!  Great Job!  Lives are being changed for eternity-because of you and yhour faithful genorosity.

]]> Thank God for His Provision Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/11/thank-god-for-his-provision Recently, my family has had over it's share of automotive difficulties.  First, in August Lauren was getting ready to drive to Bryan College for the first time and we noticed that her transmission was leaking bad.  We made a quick trade and she took our Kia sportage to school instead.  We parked Lauren's Taurus in the garage until we could afford to get it fixed.  We took off following Lauren to school loaded down with her clothes and things for the dorm.  Pulling into the Bryan Campus (up hill) the Kia began running rough.  We took it to a garage after unloading all of her belongings and had it tuned up.

About three weeks ago, Trevor borrowed my Durango and headed up to Murfreesboro for the finals of the Bash in the Boro Soccer Tournament.  On the way back and heading to Bryan College for a college visit, the Durango began "missing" and the check engine light came on.  We took it to the garage and received really bad news-the cam shaft was broke and it needed a new engine.

Amy and I prayed for a few days, laboring over what we were going to do.  We didn't know where the money was going to come from.  (Ok we knew that God was going to provide it-just didn't know how).  Suddenly God reminded Amy about our retirement account.  Bingo!  There was the answer-we sold some stocks and are now getting a new engine for the Durango, got Lauren's car fixed and paid off the remaining balance we owed on it from the bank and are going to pay off our Lowes account balance.

God had provided for us once again!  And really.....who needs to retire!!!

]]> "There was something missing from my day yesterday" Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/11/there-was-something-missing-from-my-day-yesterday "There was something missing from my day yesterday"  that was one of the comments that came in this morning while I was on the air. Many called in to say God answered their prayers by getting us back on the radio.  One caller said her daughter was just not happy as they waited at the bus stop in the car.  She tried different CD's but nothing felt right and helped her get her day started off the right way.

A brush fire atop Lookout Mountain near our transmitter site took us off the air yesterday.  We are thanking God for our engineer, Sam and his team for their quick and tireless efforts to get us up and running again.

Another caller this morning said, "She belives God allows all things to happen for a reason."  She went on to say that hopefully the day we were off would encourage everyone to be "One of a Thousand."

"One of a Thousand" is a vision to see 1000 people give $100 to J103 in the next two months to help us wipe out the budget need deficit that was created from our Friendraiser.

Will you be "One of a Thousand?"  Log onto J103 and give now.  You can break it up into 2-3 monthly payments if you need to.

Thank you for being "One of a Thousand."

]]> Sad Afternoon Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/10/sad-afternoon Yesterday afternoon I was with the Heritage High School Cross Country Team at the regional meet in Cartersville Gerogia.  I was standing with the love of my life-Amy, our good friends Joe Thacker and Jim and Beth Bennett.  Our oldest son, Trevor and their sons Jacob and Caleb have ran cross country together since the 6th grade.  They have ran in the state championship meet the first three years of their high school career.

At the region meet the top 4 teams advance to state and the top 8 individuals runners go as well.  Unfortunately the Generals missed 4th place by only 9 points.  The place that each of the teams top 5 runners finishes is an individual score that is added to form the team score.  (The first place runner gets 1 point for their team, the 54th runner gets 54 points for their team).  The lowest score wins.

As we, parents were standing around after the awards ceremony announced our boys would not be making a trip to the state meet for their senior year-it finally sank in-this was the end of another era in our families.

We would never see these three friends run again on the same team.

It really was sad as we stood there on that crisp fall day and watched some boys celebrate and our boys shocked and dismayed.

I walked over to the guys and tried to console them by reminding them that three of the teams that beat them were new competitors to us due to the realigned regions in Georgia.  Obviously my timing was bad because Trevor looked at me and said "Dad, don't talk to me right now."  I gave him his space and Amy, Chipper (who ran very well too) and I headed home.

Trevor rode the bus home with the team and when he got home he walked over to me where I was lying on the couch, he bent down and hugged me and said, "Dad, I'm sorry for the way I talked to you-I was just upset."  I told him I understood and not to worry about it.

Most of the boys, Trevor included, complained about running cross country all through middle school and high school.  They said they were running only to keep them in shape for soccer (their first love).  But now that it was shockingly over without that last trip to the state tournament-I think they realized that they had actually become runners-and loved it.

We wish the Lady Generals all the best as they go get to go to state (they finished 2nd in the region) and to the other teams representing our region. I already miss watching Lauren running and now will miss Trevor.  We still have Chipper for 3 more years!!!  (And, yes-he says he hates running too!-I will definately enjoy those last 3 years!)

]]> Two talking heads at two different Corn Mazes Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/10/two-talking-heads-at-two-different-corn-mazes I am looking forward to this afternoon's remote at the Mayfield Corn Maze, (although I am missing seeing Trevor play in a soccer tournament :(  )  This remote is going to be special-It is the finale of the J103 Maze Craze!  People will be winning big prizes, families will be having fun, and Steve and I will be testing our tech skills. 

Steve will be at the River Maze on the Ocoee, and I get to hang out with my buddy Michael Mayfield at the Mayfield Corn Maze and Pumpkin Patch in Athens.  We will be sharing each break-talking to each other miles and miles apart.  Sounds pretty cool.  I hope it is when it happens!

The Leaves are changing and God is showing off His creative side.  I hope you will make an opportunity to get your family or loved one outside sometime in the next few weeks and enjoy God's handiwork!

]]> I want to be Luther Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/10/i-want-to-be-luther OK, I don't care about having a road named after me.  I haven't been in Chattanooga radio nearly half as long as he has but if you will allow me to be like Luther Massingale for just a moment.
Meet Pedro. He is a six month old "Chug"  Daddy was a chihauha, Mommy was a chhauha/pug mix."  He was born in my master bathroom along with his little brother Max.  (Max found a good family home 2 weekend ago.)  He is almost "cage trained" but still has a few accidents.  He is very friendly-loves to lick and currently is afraid to go down steps.  He flys up them!  We need to find a loving home for this little guy.  Email me and let me know if interested.  Ted@j103.com.  My wife will probably require references LOL!

]]> Chilean Miners Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/10/chilean-miners As I have watched each of the Chilean Miners being miraculously rescued from the mine after 69 days of being trapped-I have been  reminded of how God rescued me from the abyss and saved me for eternity.  Jesus paid the debt-he stepped into the "rescue capsule" and descended into our earth to give me salvation.  He did all the work-He paid the ultimate price-all I had to do was step into the capsule-and trust Him.

Each of those Chilean miners had to do the same-they couldn't be rescued unless they stepped into the capsule.  They couldn't trust in anything else-they couldn't carry any tools or anything with them.  All we have to do is trust in Jesus-pray and ask Him to come and take control of our lives.

Have you stepped into the rescue capsule yet?

]]> Promotions Promotions Promotions! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/10/promotions-promotions-promotions J103 is the place to be for some great promotions in the month of October-2 Veggie Tales DVD Libraries, 26-1 weeks worth of vegetable gift cards, marriage resources and passes to the Weekend to Remember, Disney on Ice tickets, and an all expense trip for 2 to meet Mercy Me and Phil Whickham are all up for grabs before the end of October.  Keep listening to J103 all day long-you never know when you are going to have a great chance to win!

]]> Saw my daughters first collegiate soccer goal! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/10/saw-my-daughters-first-collegiate-soccer-goal Last night Amy, Trevor and I were blessed to see Lauren score her first soccer goal as a college freshman!  It was a beautiful shot!

After the game we were congratulating her, and it struck me-she is so grown up.  Seeing how she is blossoming and handling life "on her own," makes me thankful to my Heavenly Father.  He entrusted me and Amy with Lauren almost 19 years ago.  He gave us the responsibility to raise her in His image.  Did we fail?  Several times, but fortunately for His grace, none of the failures were fatal and she has become quite the young lady mature in her faith.

In spite of me, she has become a Godly young lady.  Thank you Lord for your protection and guidance.

]]> I am "among my people." Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/09/i-am-among-my-people Last night sitting at the J103 booth in the Abba's House lobby, I was doing what my grandfather loved to do most-"people-watch."  I watched the people making their way into the Evening with the Chapmans.  Steven Curtis Chapman has been my favorite artist since I was in college.  I sang his song "I will be Here" to my wife Amy in our wedding.  As I sat and watched I noticed something about the demographics.  Most of the people, (not all), were "middle-agers."  It then struck me-I am one of them!

So funny!

It was a great concert and everyone, no matter the age, had a wonderful time.  Congratulations to our "Be a Chapman for the Evening" winners-the Callahan family.  Randy and Mitzi Callahan and their adopted daughter Mia had a wonderul time as "Chapmans" last night.  Marybeth Chapman fell in love with Mia and really took her under her wing last night.  It was a really special night!

]]> Be A Chapman for the evening Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/09/be-a-chapman-for-the-evening Thursday night is going to be a big night for the TN Valley as Steven Curtis Chapman, his wife MaryBeth and sons-the Band Caleb come to Abbas House for "A Night with the Chapmans."  It is going to be a great show.

J103 is giving you the opportunity to "Be a Chapman for the evening."  One listener and a guest is going to be awarded the grand prize-Two personalized/laminated tour passes-hyphenated with "Chapman."  If I were to win-my pass would say "Ted Gocke-Chapman"  This pass gets you everywhere you want to go associated with the concert that evening.

It includes-dinner with the tour.  On a concert tour it is never a "sit down family dinner" it's more like "grab-a-bite if you can meal."  You will be able to eat what the tour staff is eating for dinner.

After dinner you will get to sit "where ever you want!"  Sit on the side of the stage, sit front and center, sit in the sound booth-it is up to you!  You will also get to tour the Chapman bus-see what it is like to live "on the road."

During the intermission-grab a t-shirt, and a CD or DVD and have Marybeth personally autograph a copy of her new book.

"And that's not all!"  After the show you will be sent home with food just like the artists.  You will drive out of the parking lot with pizza, chicken, deli-sandwiches, hamburgers-whatever the tour manager lines up the day of the show.

Sound like a great prize?  You Bet it is!  Keep listening for you chance today and tomorrow to call in and qualify! You can be "A Chapman for the evening!"

]]> Ever Been to a Press Conference? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/09/ever-been-to-a-press-conference You have a chance to sit down with Steven Curtis and Marybeth Chapman Thursday evening before the "Night with the Chapmans." 
Your "Gold Circle" ticket gets you access to both the Question and Answer Time and the Concert.

And with the J103 discout you save $10.00 and can enjoy this great evening for only $25.00.

General Admission (no Q&A admission) is only $15.50 if you get your tickets today!  Don't miss out.  I will be there and want to see you!

Go to the Abba's House Bookstore or get your tickets online at dmiconcerts.com, but to get the J103 discount-you have to get them today.

For more information log onto j103.com

]]> Only a Mile and a Half.... Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/09/only-a-mile-and-a-half Last week Justin, (our program director) and I were blessed to attend Momentum, the Christian Music Broadcasters Conference in Orlando.  The conference was held at Disney's Beach and Yacht Club Resort.  The resort is on Crescent Lagoon, and connects to the Boardwalk Resort-making a real nice running path with a beautiful view.  2 of the 3 mornings I got up early and ran the loop.  Once I completed the run I knew it had to be a mile and a half long.  I felt a great sense of accomplishment and was proud!  (I have just gotten back into running.)

This morning we began our Friendraiser.  A year ago J103 was in need of a miracle.  The economy was at its worst, and we had just been forced to eliminate 20% of our staff.  The future of J103, to us human folks, was uncertain.  God responded in a huge way!!!  Listeners responded and called in with urgency.  We saw the need met in record time and with an overflow.  It was incredible!

Fast Forward to this year-the economy is still sluggish but much better, and the current financial situation J103 is in is much improved.  It appears that all of oru listeners realize that and are assuming the need is not as dire.  Steve Green, our station mgr. explained it in a real way this morning on the morning show with me-He asked how would your family handle missing 2-3 paychecks?  My family would be devastated.  That is where J103 is if the $206,000 need is not met.

Now, don't get me wrong-we trust in the Lord fully!  God raised up this ministry and has kept it alive and strong for 15 years.  He will do it again.  He will provide!

So what does "a mile and a half" have to do with our Friendraiser?  When I finished the daily run I felt so good and a great sense of accomplishment, but I have to admit-when I found out it was not as far as I had thought I was a little disapointed.  As I look at the pledges and gifts coming in today-it would be easy to feel a little disapointed (compared to last year), BUT, each gift is what is needed and what God has annointed.  Some may think, "my gift is too small."  There is no "too small."  Just be faithful.

Will you "run the extra mile (and a half)" with us?  Call 893-6767 or toll free 877-262-j103 or go to our homepage and click on the "Donate Now" Button.  God Bless you!

]]> Great Weekend in Atlanta Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/09/great-weekend-in-atlanta I had a great Labor Day weekend!  It started off Friday night at the Heritage High School Home Opener.  I got to announce the first ever General win over the LFO Warriors-28-0!  Saturday morning was an early start as we got up and drove to Atlanta for a weekend of select-soccer at the Atlanta Cup Tournament.  Trevor's team, Express 93 won the entire tournament!!!!  They went 5-0 and was only scored on 3 times, if my memory serves correct.

One of things we enjoyed between games was.........sleeping!  Many of you know how few hours of sleep I normally get.  This weekend-I got caught up!  Felt so nice! 

Got home yesterday and mowed my yard and my inlaws. 

Hope you had a great weekend and are ready for a short week. 

What was the best part of your weekend?

]]> We really could use your help! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/09/we-really-could-use-your-help J103 is God's Ministry and has been since its inception 15 years ago.  Times have been tough in the past and continue to be a little "faith-testing" at times.

We really could use your help!  Coming up on September 14-16 our Friendraiser will take place, and we are a little behind last year's "record-breaking/ministry-saving" pre-pledge giving.

I don't ask you often, so I hope you will pray and ask God how much He would like for you to contribute to ensure the continued success of reaching people for Christ, encouraging believers and ministering to ministries.

You can give right now online-just go to the homepage and click on "Donate Now."  Or give us a call at 4232-892-1200.

Our J103 audience is always so faithful and such a blessing.  You are just as vital to this ministry as those of us behind the microphones!

To God be the Glory-Great things He has done and will continue to do!

]]> That's a bargain! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/08/thats-a-bargain My inlaws received a quote to trim their tall hedges, bushes, and weed their flowerbeds.  When Amy told me what the quote was I was in shock!  "You're kidding me!  They are trying to rip off your mom and dad," I said.  I then volunteered to do it.
Saturday morning we got up and went their house, (about 5 minutes from ours), loaded down with trimmers, extension cords, ladder, etc.

Four hours later, covered in scratches and cuts, I looked at Amy and said, "That quote.......that was a bargain!  Can we get that guys number?"  I was kidding of course and we finished the job, but, Wow!  What a job it was.

it is not the first time I have betten off more than I could chew!

]]> Warning! Pink Flamingos on the way!!!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/08/warning-pink-flamingos-on-the-way On this morning's show we were talking about fundraisers, and someone called in to tell us about their most successful fundraiser-the Pink Flamingos, (it figures that it was a youth pastor!).

I have had about 5 successful Pink Flamingo fundraisers in my career as a youth pastor.  We never made less than $2,000 on each one.

Here's how it works:  Simply take your church roll and divide it up into geographical areas with no more than 10 homes on each list.

Purchase a plastic, tacky pink flamingo lawn statue for each list.  Take a saw and cut a little "door" in the underside of each bird. 

Type up a letter that says basically, "You have been flamingoed!  Quickly relocate this bird to the next name and address on the enclosed list.  Scratch your name off the list, and the next time you are at "church" drop off a Flaimingo Relocation Fee in the Flamingo Box located in the lobby.  Place this letter inside a ziploc bag and place inside the flamingo, and then under the dark of night, sneak into the first persons yard and stick the flamingo in the ground.

It is a great way for a congregation to have fun together, spend time as families "sneaking around town" and a great way to raise donations for mission trips etc.

If you have any other questions-just email me and let me know.

By the way, No flamingos were harmed in the execution of this fundraiser!

]]> My wife says I'm Crabby Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/08/my-wife-says-im-crabby OK, so in the Gocke household, I have once again taken over the bills.  Amy has done them for the last 3-4 years and with her going to work full-time she has run out of time to do them along with keeping the house up and taking the lead role dealing with the boys and their schedules.

For the last two weeks I have been sitting down, balancing the checkbook with the days receipts, and budgeting how we are going to pay all of the bills (with the added automotive repair expense).

I kind of enjoy doing it-trusting God to meet our needs, and doing our best to be good stewards of what He is providing.

But since I know the balance of the checkbook, I am not finding myself telling the boys "no" more often.  I am also watching what we get at the grocery store a little more closer.  I am limiting the times we eat out.  All of these things Amy did (and well, I might add), when she was the one in the checking account drivers seat.

But now she says I am being crabby!  I guess that is a reminder from the Lord to keep my head up and keep trusting in Him.

Speaking of that......God blessed my socks off this week by an annoymous gift from one of our listeners towards our automotive repairs.  God is so good!

]]> LIving without a cell phone Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/08/living-without-a-cell-phone
Do you remember the day when you didn't have a cell phone?  Most students today do not.  I can remember not having one.  I remeber pay phones.  I can remember sending youth groups out on photo-scavenger hunts where they had to stick their entire group inside a phone booth.  My kids do not remember ever seeing a phone booth.

While I do not long for the days we did not have the convenience of picking up the cell phone and calling for assistance when you are broken down on the side of the road, or when I need to get a hold of my kids or wife suddenly.  What I have had to train myself is to "remain in the now."  When I am carrying on a face-to-face conversation with someone they are the most important thing I have going on at the moment.  If my phone rings-I have to fight the urge to take my attention off of the person I am communicating with to look and "see who's calling."  At that moment-what does that say to the person who has had my attention.  If I answer the phone it says, "Hold on, this is more important."  If I resist the temptation to look and just let it go to voice mail, then I am saying, "You are the most important thing to me right now."

I feel pretty strongly-that is what Jesus would of done!  He would of just let the call go to his voice mail!........excuse me, I have a call!  Just kidding.

]]> How Do They Do It? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/08/how-do-they-do-it I know you have heard people who know and trust the Lord say about those who don't, "I don't know how they survive this situation...."

Well, to be honest-I truly don't know how they do it either.

My family has been blessed with 5, yes 5 (a whole fleet) of used vehicles.  Sometimes I begin to feel guilty.  I have been to Jamaica and seen family after family that don't have the first one, and yet all three of my kids have one as do my wife and I.

Now, before you jump to conclusions-these are all "pre-owned" vehicles.  One of our vehicles came from the J103 auction (the Kia), and the car Trevor is driving was purchased this summer for $600.  We have never purchased a brand new vehicle, which saves us money, but can also cause headaches when they start to break down.

Which brings me to the point of this blog post-Out of our 5 vehicles, there is only one currently with no mechanical issues.  Three days before Lauren left for Bryan College, she came driving back into the neighborhood leaving a trail of transmission fluid.  It is now parked in our garage until we can save up enough money to get it fixed.  She took the Kia to Bryan, and it did fine until she began going up the hill into the campus-the check engine light began flashing.  Wanting our daughter to have a dependable car we had her take it to a great mechanic there in Dayton, (he listens to J103!!!!),   It is currently being repaired with new spark plugs, wires, boots and thermostat.

The "check engine" light has been on in my Durango for about a week and a half-taking that to Advance Auto Parts to get checked out today.  Yesterday we were waiting on the boys to get home from cross country practice and Trevor called saying his Nissan just died.  I took off, we got it started and home.  I did what little automotive I knew to do (and that was very little) and we got it going.

Through it all-I have a peace that, even with a real tight budget-God is the Great Provider!  "I don't know how people without that trust in Jesus would handle stress like this?"

Have you had a struggle you went through where you thought the same thing?

]]> A Talk with Steven Curtis Chapman Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/08/a-talk-with-steven-curtis-chapman I have learned that Steven Curtis Chapman is going to be spending some time with us on the morning show in a few short weeks.

If you could sit down with Steven, what questions would you ask?  What are some things from Chapman land you would like to learn?

Let me know, so I can get the answers!

]]> Want to trade? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/07/want-to-trade I used to love trading Baseball Cards as a child.  I can remember four or five of "us boys" hoping on our bikes and riding to the local drugstore or convenience store to buy our .25 packs of baseball cards.  We would actually eat the hard stick of gum and then sit down and look who we had.  Of course the goal was to get the entire set of that year's cards.  (I never was successful in doing that.)  I can remember the excitement of finding one of the all-star cards, or my favorite-Pete Rose.

We would sort our cards by teams.  And you would always keep your "doubles" together in case a trade became possible.

This morning on the show I played the "Trading Game."  It was all for fun and no items really changed hands.  I started with my aluminum J103 water bottle and ended up with a complete set of United States Refrigerator Magnets.  Along the way I traded an airconditioner and a basektball goal.  It was a lot of fun.

What have you ever traded?  As a child?  As an adult?

]]> Cleaned Out Closets Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/07/cleaned-out-closets If anyone is wanting to know where the coat hanger shortage began-I now know.  My college-bound daughter-just cleaned out her closet last night.  This took her well over 4-5 hours!  I went to bed at about 10pm and when I got up and left the house early this morning there was an opened suitcase of coathangers!  We have been buying new ones each month!  There were also 3 bags of clothes that Lauren wants to donate to a thrift store.

If we were to clean out the "closets of our life" what unneccessary things would we find?  How much clutter do we pack into our lives that keep us from becoming what God really wants us to be?  "Seek first the Kingdom of God and all these things will be given unto you."

And.......if you need a coat hanger-just let me know.

]]> My Little Girl is not so little anymore Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/07/my-little-girl-is-not-so-little-anymore OK, Big test for mom and dad!  Amy and I are beginning to face the reality that our first-born is spreading her wings and about to jump out of the nest.

Lauren has already graduated high school, has her college plans all firmed up and will be moving into her dorm August 9th.

We knew that was coming.  We were thrown for a little loop when she and her two best friends decided they wanted to go to Florida this week for a little sun and surf.

I thank God for the young lady He has created her to be, as I have no problem trusting her and her three friends.  God has instilled in Lauren a great head and a love for Himself.  Lauren has become a great lady of faith.

Still makes you a little nervous knowing they are driving back and forth to Florida and spending a week at the beach without me.......or maybe I'm struggling with jealousy!!!!!

]]> All three of my kids will be in Heaven Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/06/all-three-of-my-kids-will-be-in-heaven Well, yesterday we celebrated our youngest son, Chipper's decision to ask Jesus Christ into his heart and life.  A couple of years ago, upon arriving home from church Chipper prayed, while sitting in the car in the driveway, to accept Jesus as his Lord and Savior.  He had never been baptized.  Last week we joined Burning Bush Baptist Church (after serving on staff there 17 years ago).  It was a perfect opportunity for Chipper to "show the world" he belonged to Christ.

It was so sweet to see and hear him as I had the awesoem priviledge to baptise him as "my brother, and my son."

I hope you have prayed and asked Jesus Christ into your heart and life.  If not-please contact 888-Need-Him.

]]> It's all about perspective Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/06/its-all-about-perspective Sunday evening Amy and I sat down and looked over the summer calendar and our family budget.  July 28th we will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary.  We had hoped to head to the beach with the family, (before Lauren goes off to college), and I was looking forward to seeing the Space Shuttle launch.  That is one of the things on my "bucket list" and their are only two more scheduled Space Shuttle launches left.

We learned that after figuring in the part of Lauren's tuition we were responsible for, that there would be no money for a vacation.  I will admit that I was disaopointed.

Monday morning, still feeling sorry for myself, I asked all the listeners to call in with their "realistcic vacations they would go on if they could afford it."

The first call brought everything in perspective.......a father of an 11 year old daughter who had been fighting cancer for a couple of years called in and said he would love to go on a vacation anywhere with his daughter, because they were calling in Hospice care for her that day.  Wow!  Talk about a sobering call.  God convicted me that I had no reason to complain or sulk because I couldn't spend a few days at a beach.  I am so blessed.

I prayed for that dad,his daughter and their family and encourage you to do the same.  If you do get to take a vacation with your family this summer-thank God for ALL of your blessings-not just the beautiful beach or time away.

]]> JFEST A Big Success Thanks to incredible Volunteers Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/06/jfest-a-big-success-thanks-to-incredible-volunteers Well, JFEST 2010 is in the history books.  Close to 200 decisions were made for Christ and early estimates are 7,500 over the two days joined together to worship at Camp Jordan.

The event was a huge success but only because of the mighty army of volunteers!  This year was the smoothest ever!  Volunteer Coordinators Debi and Dani Hix stepped into this the vital role of recruiting, organizing and leading the volunteers and did a wonderful job!

Each and every one of you who served has something to do with each of those decisions for Christ!  Thank you!

]]> God will provide! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/05/god-will-provide I am a firm believer in the provision of God.  He is so good and has never let me or my family down.

His will is perfect.  Even though there are times I wish things were differnt at the moment-God knows what's best for Me.  He knows the past, present and future.  I would be foolish to compalin and attempt to act like I know better than He does.

This week was one of those weeks I was tempted to grumble.

Monday Amy took Chipper into the doctor because he had lost a filling while on the 8th grade GA trip last week.  He needs a root canal and filling (close to $2,000 and we have no dental insurance.)

Yesterday, if you were listening, you heard about the phone call from my wife about Trevor's accident.  It appears the car that I drive to work, and he uses to get around to soccer practice etc, was now nose down in a ditch.  It had to be towed and it looks like it is going to be to much to repair.  So now we are not lookign for one car (Lauren is going away and the wrecked car was going to be Trevor's to drive he and Chipper to school), we are looking for two-with no money in the budget really.

Lauren is graduating this Saturday and we have some expenses with the family all coming down.  We want the party to be nice for Lauren to recognize all her hard work and accomplishesments.

Things were looking desperate, and then.....God answered one of the prayers by providing the funding for Chipper's tooth.

God is good all the time and we trust Him!  Can't wait to see what He provides for me to drive!

]]> Down on the Farm Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/05/down-on-the-farm I had the priviledge of taking a "fieldtrip" to the Mayfield Farm and Nursery yesterday!
Michael Mayfield, yes of the Mayfield Dairy family, invited me to come up to Athens TN and take a tour of his farm and nursery.

I grew up in Fern Creek (Louisville) Kentucky.  Our neighborhood was surrounded by farmland.  I even had cousins who were dairy farmers and for a stint while in college I worked at Stockyard Farm and Dairy Supply.  I have a fondness for farmers.

Michael is no exception.  I enjoyed riding around the farm with him in his truck.  His passion for produce is fantastic.  His farm is a true joy to visit.

It's strawberry time right now, and as the weeks go on there will be more and more farm fresh produce showing up in his market.

I encourage you to take some time away with your family, head up to Athens and check out Michael's farm.  Ask for Michael, he'd be glad to meet you.

]]> I'm going Postal! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/05/im-going-postal I am getting ready to walk across the post office to the East Ridge Post office.  "Big Deal," you may say.  "I bet you have been there many times before."  You are correct.  I have been inside the East Ridge Post Office dropping off lots of mail and packages over the last 15 years.

But this trip is special.  This handful of mail is meaningful.  The stack of invitations I will be carrying over to be delivered are my daughter, Lauren's High School Graduation Invitations.

These invites will be delivered in Louisville, Sacramento, Chicago, and of course right here in the TN Valley.  They symbolize 12 years of hard work and sacrifice both Lauren and her parents have endured.

I am so blessed to have three great kids that take their education seriously, (OK, so the jury is still out on Chipper).

I'm praying for all of you in the same boat and making the same trip going "Postal" today.

]]> Going to be an exciting week for the Gockes Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/05/going-to-be-an-exciting-week-for-the-gockes This looks like it is going to be one of those memorable weeks for my family.

This past Friday night, Trevor's high school soccer team lost in the first round of the state tournament to a very talented high school-Lambert.  Lambert's field has turf-if that tells you anything about their soccer program.  They have lots of resources and lots of very talented players.

Lauren's high school team won their first round game-making them the first Catoosa County High School Soccer Team ever to make it past the 1st round.  They will play this Wednesday in Oconoee near Athens GA.

Friday will also be Lauren's college signing day at the High School.  I have shared with you about her college scholarship to Bryan College for playing on the Lion's Soccer team.  This Friday it becomes official.  She, (and dad) is very excited.

Chipper has a lot of make up work this week he has to get completed and turned in.  Pray for his safety as we work together on these projects every afternoon.  Just Kidding!  Pray for my sanity!

It's Monday-for sure!  But God is in control-and He is Good!

]]> And They're Off!!!!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/04/and-theyre-off Unless you are from Louisville Kentucky and grew up around the traditions and pagentry of the Kentucky Derby, you would find yourself tomorrow afternoon making fun of me with the tears in my eye when the University of Lousiville Marching Band, decked out in the red and white uniforms with black boots plays Composer Stephen Foster's "My Old Kentucky Home" right before the start of the 136th running of the Kentucky Derby.

It's a "home town thing"  Every year since I was old enough to understand what a horse race was I have picked a horse to win the Derby.  Never a gambler I have picked a hopeful just for fun.  I have been right a few times and wrong most of them but here it goes....

Ted's pick for the 136th KY Derby-Coming out of Gate #5 with 30-1 odds a horse named "Line of David."

I had a tough time choosing between that one and "Make Music for Me" and "Discreetly Mine"  But I am going with the spiritual choice-"Line of David."

Let's see if I'm right!  Go ahead and pick yours and submit it here before the race Saturday afternoon.

]]> And the winner is..... Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/04/and-the-winner-is Last Wednesday we held a press conference at the Tivoli Theater.  Both Mayor Claude Ramsey and Mayor Ron Littlefield (Mayor Littlefield just off the plane from Australia), spoke and are excited about this event which will recognize those who are doing a great job at shining the light of Jesus Christ (Being a Beacon) in the TN Valley.

Everyone can go to beaconawards.org right now and nominate the: man, woman, student, church, pastor, non-profit, business that you feel does an incredible job of being a beacon.

Governor Mike Huckabee is going to be with us for the Beacon Awards (October 12) at the Chattanooga Trade and Convention Center.

Check out the video message from the Governor and place your nominations now.

If you know of anyone who would like to sponsor this great event please give me a call at 423-424-1294 or ted@j103.com

]]> It's hard to be from Louisville this week Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/04/its-hard-to-be-from-louisville-this-week Growing up in Louisville Kentucky you always looked forward to the Kentucky Derby Festival.  Most people think the KY Derby is a 3 minute horse race the first Saturday in May.  That is only partially correct.  That is the main event-but it is the 9th race out of 10 that day.  But for most Louisvillians the KY Derby is only the climax to the busiest week of the year.

Last Saturday was Thunder over Louisville-the Biggest Fireworks display and air show in the country on the banks of the Ohio River.

Tomorrow (Saturday) is the Great Balloon Race and the Mini Marathon (I've run the 13 miles twice).  I have two of my three brothers running tomorrow.

Next week there are daily events including The Run for the Ros'e (a race for Louisville's waitresses and waiters), the Great Steamboat Race on the River, the Pegasus Parade and many other events.

I love living in Ringgold and the TN Valley, but this one week out of the year my heart really goes back to "My Old Kentucky Home!"

But.....JFest is coming and then Faith and Family Night at Riverbend-so....I'll get over the homesickness real quick!

]]> Lauren has been offered a College Soccer Scholarship Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/04/lauren-has-been-offered-a-college-soccer-scholarship I am so blesssed to have 3 wonderful kids.  Lauren, Trevor and Chipper all work very hard at their studies and at their sports.

Lauren is beginning to see fruit from her labors.  She has been offered the top Dean's Scholarship from Bryan College and as of Friday she is being offered a Soccer Scholarship!!!

Coach Mark Sauve, the Bryan Lions Coach, attended another one of Lauren's games, (Friday night), and afterwards walked up to me and Lauren and asked if we would like to have a "signing ceremony" at Heritage some time!  That means he is offering her a scholarship!!!  We are not sure how much just yet, but will know soon.

Lauren is so excited.  She hasd been previously offered a cross country/track scholarship, but her love for running is eclipsed by her love for soccer.

God is so good!  I just have to get used to being a Bryan Lion Fan!

]]> Rested and Relaxed Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/04/rested-and-relaxed I thank God for a great week off to spend at home with my kids.  My daughter Lauren is graduating High School in a month or so, and will be off to college soon.  Our lives are so hectic we need to take advantage of all the time we do find to make memories.

When you get up each morning at 4am-it feels really nice to be able to sleep in.  I forced myself to stay in bed until 9am almost every morning.  I stayed up past 11 on most nights.  It was nice!

So what did I do last week?  Lots of yard work and house work.  It felt great to be able to have supper on the table when Amy got home from work.

My Birthday was also this past weekend.  Thanks to all of you who wished me a Happy B-Day!  It was a great week and weekend indeed.

But.....it's good to be back in the saddle again!  Thanks for listening!

]]> Traditions are not bad in and of themselves Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/04/traditions-are-not-bad-in-and-of-themselves Wednesday, I was invited to come and speak to the students of Heritage High School and their FCA luncheon.

God gave me the words to remind the students to not go through this most important weekend on "auto-pilot."

We have a lot of traditions don't we?  One of my families traditions is to go to Provinos on one of our family members Birthdays and eat so many garlic rolls that we almost get sick!  Churches have tons of traditions also.

Traditions are not bad in and of themselves.  Traditions cause us to pause and remember why something is so special.  It's when we just go through the motions and forget the reason for the tradition that we get tripped up.

Jesus paid the ultimate price for our salvation and eternal life, (which begins when you ask Jesus into your heart), by dying on the cross for our sins.

He made the decision to do that while in the Garden of Gethsemane.  The word Gethsemane means "oil press."  There was an oil press, no dout, in the garden there.  It is what they did in the Garden-pressed the olive juice out of the olives from the trees.

Jesus, while in the Garden was "pressed out" for us.  Through, blood, sweat and tears-Jesus set his face like flint for the cross.  It was there He told His Heavenly Father "Not my will but your's be done."  God's will meant He would have to endure the most painful, excrutiating, hideous, grotesque death imaginable.  But the thing that caused Jesus's heart to be "depressed unto death" was not the physical pain caused by nails, thorns, or whips.  The thing that scared Jesus most was the instant all of the sin of mankind would be thrown on Him and when His Heavenly Father, God, would have to turn away from Him.

Jesus did it all for me, and you!

Happy Easter!
I will be off next week for Spring Break.
See you Soon

]]> The Ups and Downs of Parenting Teenagers Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/03/the-ups-and-downs-of-parenting-teenagers Last night, Amy and I experienced some of the emotional ups and downs of parenting teenagers.

You have heard me many times talking about Lauren and Trevor playing soccer for Heritage High School, and how Chipper has just picked up the game of tennis and is playing for Heritage Middle School.

On Monday afternoon I was talking to Chipper about school and what was going on.  He said he was looking forward to his Tuesday\'s tennis match and really hoped he won his first game.  He didn\'t mean match-he meant his first win of a game in a match.  Hold on to that thought.

Tuesday night was also a big night for our oldest two, Lauren and Trevor.  Their soccer teams were playing the Lakeview Fort Oglethorpe Warriors.  Lauren and Trevor and many of their teammates played for LFO two years ago, before Heritage High School opened.  They still have friends that play for the warriors.  Lauren\'s HHS team is undefeated this year, Trevor\'s HHS team is doing very well and could possibly be a #2 seed in the region meaning we would host the region crossover game on the way to the state tournament.

Last night was also \"senior night\" where they recognize the senior soccer players in a nice ceremony between the games.

Lauren\'s team won 2-1, and then Chipper arrived from his tennis match, (normally Amy or I would of been with Chipper but since it was senior night we both had to be there).  He walked into the pressbox where we were and said, with a smile on his face....\"I won a game!\"  (He lost the match-but won a game!)

We were riding the \"high\" on the emotional roller coaster.  Until.....

Trevor\'s team lost a very physical game.......the \"low\" of the roller coaster.

Want to know the good thing about Roller Coasters?  When you go down, you have to come back up.  I am just so thankful that God is our safety bar holding us down in the ride of life.

]]> Had to Bite my Tongue and be a "Good Dad" Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/03/had-to-bite-my-tongue-and-be-a-good-dad My oldest two children, Lauren and Trevor, are great athletes.  They excel in cross country and soccer. Chipper is my youngest child.  He played his share of baseball and soccer growing up, but never really "got into it" like his brother and sister.  In recent years he has gotten a little too comfortable behind the X-Box and TV.  My wife, Amy and I have tried to encourage him to get outside and "do" something.  We forced him to run cross country this year for Heritage Middle School, and although he only qualified to run in one race, he enjoyed it.

About a month ago, a good friend of mine, Kevin Donovan, ( the tennis pro at the Chattanooga Raquet Club in Hixson) called me and said he had an opening for a lesson and wondered if Chipper would want to give it a try.  Against Chipper's initial desire, we went.  Kevin was great-he patiently introduced Chipper to the basics of tennis.  When the 30 minute lesson was over he presented Chipper with a raquet and a bunch of balls to practice with.  Chipper was hooked!

The Heritage Middle School Tennis team is a no-cut team, meaning that anyone can come out and play.  Chipper has been playing doubles.  He hasn't won a game or match yet, but has been enjoying it.

For the first time, I was able to go and watch him play. He played in a singles match against a much more experienced McCallie Middle School boy.  Chipper, again lost, but had fun.  While I was watching him, I had to fight the urge to "get on/coach" him from the sidelines.  In my opinion, he wasn't doing any of the things that Kevin had taught him in the lesson.  I found myself biting my tongue.  God told me-"Ted, now is not the time to coach-but to just sit back and encourage your son."  So I did.  It was another one of those times that Chipper bonded.  (I will get him to Kevin to do the coaching!)

]]> Big Time Thank You!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/03/big-time-thank-you History was made yesterday here at J103.  Never before have we met the budget need at 1pm on the final day.  Usually we are sharing and encouraging listeners to get involved late into the afternoon/early evening just to mee the need.  But not this time!  God showed up in a real way!!!  He impressed upon our listeners and they called and gave!

Because of your faithfullness-not only will we be able to continue broadcasting the Good News of Jesus 24/7 365 days a year, we will be able to impact the city in a real way with other Evangelism methods, (ie.  JFest has expanded to two days, and we are going to put up several billboards to point people to J103 where they are pointed to Jesus!)

Please send in those pledges as promised so we can see all that God will do!

Have a great weekend!  Meterologist David Karnes says this is going to be the best day ever!

Bring on the spring and summer!

]]> Fantastic 15 Year Celebration! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/03/fantastic-15-year-celebration I had a blast at our J103 15th Celebration event Friday night.
The crowd was great.  It was so cool getting to meet all of you.
The Auction was a success.
This morning on the air we heard from several of you sharing how much the concert was a huge blessing for your life. 

Fee and Meredith Andrews did an incredible job.  God's presencene truly was felt.

I also want to thank Zaxbys for their sponsorship of the event.   The food was delicious, and they did it at no charge to J103.  Please do me a favor and stop by the Zaxby's Fort Oglethorpe, Hixson, East Brainerd Rd, Ooltewah and Hwy 58 locations and thank them for their support of J103.

]]> Lost a Brother-saw a brother this week Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/03/lost-a-brother-saw-a-brother-this-week This week started out pretty emotional.  A "Giant of a man" Jeff Sims passed away last Friday from a massive heart attack, while he was working on the family farm with his dad, brother and farmhands.  Jeff leaves behind his beautiful wife, and three kids (16, 13, 9).  His mother and father, as well as siblings, grandmother, aunts and uncles, and it seemed like more than 3/4 of Catoosa County are greiving along with them.

Jeff coached little league baseball with me for years.  I was the youth pastor at Burning Bush for years and we got along great!  He was still impacting young lives today!

I was asked by his wife to sing at the funeral.  I was honored to do so.

Yes, this week, even though I know I will see Jeff again in Heaven, was really sad.

Last night-God reminded me, (again) that He is in control.  He sent my youngest brother on a business trip to visit the Roper Plant in Lafayette.  Since he was here, I picked him up and he got to go to my oldest two kids soccer games and out to eat with the family.  It was great to see Jonathan!

Isn't God just like that?.......when we need Him most-He is always there!

]]> I lost Jesus.....but then I found Him! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/03/i-lost-jesusbut-then-i-found-him Get your attention?  Now know this, I did not lose my salvation.  In fact, I believe I can not lose my salvation.  Jesus Christ died for my sins on the cross.  I accepted Him into my life as Lord and Savior, and he came in and set up shop.

But I did lose a little silver "stone" with the name "Jesus" inscribed on it.  Someone gave it to me at Christmas time and I was instructed to keep it in my pocket as a constant reminder that my Savior is in my life all day long.  I had kept it in my pocket every day since Christmas time.

The good news is.....I found Jesus.....this morning in my pants pocket.

I am so thankful to Jesus for all He has done and continues to do in my life.  We had one of those "Thankful" moments last night when Lauren received a call from the Academic Dean at Bryan College informing her she had won the Dean's Scholarship competition and along with it the $7,000 scholarship.  Thank you Lord for being in control of my life.

Have you found Jesus?

]]> Don't Give Up! You May be the Ultimate JFest Fan!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/03/dont-give-up-you-may-be-the-ultimate-jfest-fan I know, I know, the montage is really hard!  It had to be.  The prize pack for our Ultimate JFest Fan is so large that we had to make it a challenge.

But.....it is getting easier each day.  Tune in tomorrow for multiple opportunities to call in and identify all 11 of the JFest artists in the montage.  Brett, our production and midday guy, is stretching it again for tomorrow morning.

Just listen.....be the first caller who correctly identifies all of the artists in order when I open the phone lines.....and this will be the best JFest ever for you!  (With our line up-it will be the best JFest ever for everyone!)

]]> Serious Coaching error Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/02/serious-coaching-error I can't tell you how many times I made coaching errors while leading my boys Little League Baseball teams.  There were times where I screwed up the lineup and put boys where they shouldn't have been.  There were times when I would send my boys stealing a base and they would get thrown out.  One game I remember clearly was when Chipper was about 7-8.  It was still coach pitch and I was pitching.  Chipper was in the batter's box and I pitched one right down the middle where he could hit it.    Hit it he did-hard!  Would of been an extra base hit for sure......the only problem.....I couldn't get out of the way fast enough.  The ball hit me and it was declared a foul ball.  The next pitch-he swung and missed.  Another time I remember sending a player from third base to home to "win the game."  I wish!  He got thrown out.  We lost.  The boys were disapointed, until I handed out the juice boxes and snack crackers and a game ball.  All was well in the universe then.

I don't think there are enough juice boxes or snack crackers in the world to make things right in the Netherlands.   Yesterday the Dutch speedskater was just a few laps away from the Gold Medal.  It wasn't even close.  In this event two skaters skate for 25 laps, (a long race), every once in a while they switch lanes to make sure both competitors skate an equal distance.  The Dutch coach, just seconds away from seeing his athlete win Gold motioned the skater to switch lanes-the only problem?    It wasn't time for him to change lanes....resulting in a disqualification!

This skater not only lost a medal in the Olympics but about $500,000 in bonuses he wold of received from the Netherlands Olympic Committee.   Ouch.  He was not happy.  He threw his glasses across the ice, shook off the physical touches of apology from the coach.

Sports and Athletic Competition is full of setbacks and disapointments.    Juice box anyone?

]]> Riverbend's Faith and Family Night Announcement Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/02/riverbends-faith-and-family-night-announcement It is always exciting to have Joe "Dixie" Fuller join us in the studio to announce who is going to be headlining the Faith and Family Night at Riverbend.   This year, Dixie announced, is going to be Third Day! 

I had the opportunity to share with Mac Powell after Winter Jam in January about how special Faith and Family Night is.  We wanted them to know that it was not just an ordinary concert, but the majority of the audience could be unsaved.  He really appreciated getting that information and said they would design their concert set with that in mind.  Begin praying now for multitudes to give their heart and lives to Christ at Riverbend!

I also love it when the Riverbend Faith and Family Night Announcement is made because it means that summer is on the horizon. 

Our JFest lineup is also about ready to be announced.  Keep posted.  You will hear it on the air as well as here!

]]> Definitely not a weather guy! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/02/definately-not-a-weather-guy Well, Brett, Mike and I have now all done our stint as "weather guys" on WDEF's DJ Weather Hits.
On February 19 you will be able to vote for your favorite DJ in the TN Valley.  Remember your "buds" here at J103!!!!!

Here is the link that will take you to my weather bit. It is a lot harder than it looks.  You are standing in front of a green wall and looking at one of three monitors while trying to address the camera.  Tough!  Lot easier to talk into a microphone and not have to worry if you have enough hair gel in!

Grab some popcorn, get ready to laugh!

(Thanks Auschick for the spelling correction!)

]]> Deceased Dog and a Lesson from God Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/01/deceased-dog-and-a-lesson-from-god Yesterday afternoon I received several phone calls and text messages from my wife Amy and our son Chipper.  I was in a meeting and couldn't answer my phone for about 30 minutes.

When I was able to use my phone I learned that one of our family pets had passed away.

"Brownie" was a stray dog that "found us" about 6-7 years ago.  He wandered into our yard in a neighborhood we lived in.  He was a real beautiful brownish-red dog with a lot of life.  He and Chipper hit it off right away.  Brownie loved chasing balls and running back and forth.

 Brownie was already an adult dog when he "adopted" us, so he was around 12-13 years old.

Tuesday night Chipper went out to feed the dogs, (we had two outside dogs), and he came back in and said, "Dad, I think something is wrong with Brownie.  He won't come out of the doghouse."

I went back out with Chipper and took the top off of his plastic doghouse.  Brownie raised up his graying head and just looked at me.  We pet and rubbed him and he licked our hands, and put his head back down.  I told Chipper to get him some food and water and put it in his house where he could get it.  I told my son that Brownie was not feeling well.  I knew that Brownie's days were probably numbered.

Chipper came home from school yesterday afternoon and went outside to check on him.  Sure enough-Brownie had passed away.

I got home and talked with Amy and Chipper about what to do with his body.  I was hoping that Chipper would be fine with wrapping up his body and disposing of him in the garbage/county landfill.  Chipper said he would rather have him buried in the back yard.

So, begrudgingly, I grabbed a couple of shovels and we went into the back yard to dig a good size grave for this beloved family pet.  Did I mention I live in Georgia?  The ground wasn't nice, soft, and moist soil.  It was good old Georgia Clay and rock. And I wasn't "digging it."

Several times I tried to talk Chipper out of burying him in the backyard and just disposing him in the garbage, and then Chipper said, "Dad, I am so glad we are burying Brownie in the backyard so I can come out and spend time with him.  He will also be able to be in the backyard he played in."  As a lump rose in my throat, God woke me up and made me realize that I was not burying a dog-I was bonding with my son.

The rest of the "funeral service" was a lot different.  We talked about what a good dog Brownie was, how much fun Chipper and the rest of the family had with him.  When we finished putting Brownie "to rest," Chipper had a sense of relief.  We had a great time together.  We made a memory yesterday that Chippper and I will remember forever.

God fogive me for all the times I tried to take the easy road and sacrificed moments I could of spent with my wife and kids learning more and more about them and how God desires for us to grow closer to each other and to Him.

]]> Rain Rain Go Away..... Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/01/rain-rain-go-away The weather is probably what most people complain about the most.
As I am here in the studio this morning it is raining pretty hard but you won't hear me complaining.

I don't think it is a secret that I am not a big fan of cold weather.  I would rather be sitting on the equator in the middle of the summer than to be cold.

God teaches me continually through weather that He is in charge, and I must worship Him no matter what David Karnes says the weather is going to hold.  You see David and I have both talked about how God is in control of the weather, David just shares what the weather is going to be and what it is.

God says we are to praise Him in ALL circumstances-Rain or Shine!  I heard a sermon recently about Jesus sleeping in the boat during the storm when the disciples were terrified.  You see the disciples knew the sea-they knew how dangerous the storm they were experiencing really was, (or so they thought).  While they are panicing what is Jesus doing?  He is sleeping, and not just sleeping-He is in deep sleep!  Dream Sleep.  When they woke Him, he did not join in the hysteria-He simply stood up and commanded the storm to stop......and it did!

Then the disciples were in awe!  And I bet they worshipped then.  But we need to be like Jesus-and not sweat the small stuff.

Rain Rain Go Away.....but if you don't......I'm still praising anyway!

]]> The Propoosal Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/01/the-propoosal It was a chilly night in February, close to Valentines Day.  I had gotten out of class in the afternoon and drove 5 hours to the Southern Chicago Suburb and picked up my then girlfriend Amy.  We turned right around and drove back to Louisville, crossing the river after midnight.  Lousiville has a beautiful riverfront area called the Belevedere.  It is a huge pavilion complete with fountains, wading pools, landscaping and a sweeping view of the Ohio River and behind the skyscrapers of my home city.

I pulled over and walked Amy up the sidewalk to the view of the river.  It was then that I learned the Belevedere was under a reconstruction.  There were piles of dirt, excavators, porta-potties, construction fencing all over the place.  So much for "picture perfect."

I led Amy to a bench, knelt down, apologized for the not so romantic surroundings, pulled out the engagement ring and asked her to be my wife.

She said yes!  That was almost 20 years ago.  I have loved being married to Amy.  There have been incredible times, and not so incredible times, but through it all I know that the young lady I married 20 years is the perfect companion that God prepared for me.

After sharing that story this morning, we began getting phone calls from others sharing their proposal stories.......,one listener in Cleveland's husband actually proposed at the same place I did!

Share with us here your proposal stories!

]]> Are you kidding me-School closed becasue of forcasted snow? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/01/are-you-kidding-me-school-closed-becasue-of-forcasted-snow We were sitting at the supper table yesterday afternoon when Trevor got a text from one of his good friends.  His friend's dad is one of the decision makers in Catoosa County Schools.  The text simply read two words that all kids long for.......No School!

I had Trevor immediately confirm the news before I called Brett and Steve at the radio station.  It was confirmed-because of the forcasted school and possible hazardous conditions they cancelled school.

Now as a partent, I would rather know before bedtime that the kids didn't have school, so they wouldn't have to get up early in the morning to find out the news, but "are you kidding me?"  It was warmer this morning than it was all week!  It just started snow flurrying at lunch time.

When I was a kid, (I know-my kids will tell you in the dark ages, when we had to walk 5 miles up hill in the snow with no shoes, up hill both ways), we hardly ever had school closed.  In Jefferson County, (Louisville KY), we were always the last to get out.  All of the other counties around us would get out, but not us!  And on the few times we did-it wasn't until Wayne Perky on 84 WHAS told us at 5am!

Don't get me wrong.  If I was a student, I would be rejoicing big time for the schools being closed.

I honestly respect the decisions our school systems make.  It proves they have the best interest and safety of our students at heart when they make those decisions.

But man, is it a long list to read in the mornings!

With the weather forcast the way it looks now-it appears I will sleeping here at the station tonight to make sure I am ready for you guys in the morning.

Be careful!

]]> Happy 2010 Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2010/01/happy-2010 What a great finish to 2009!  My youngest son, Chipper learned to ski!  True to form, he was just like my other two.  I spent about an hour working with Chipper from putting on his skis until he was leaving me behind in a cloud of powder!

We got to go with the student ministry from Burnining Bush Baptist Church.  There were close to 100 people in our group and everyone had an awesome time.  Not one broken bone!  Talk about beating the odds!

I worked with Chipper on the bottom of the slopes, near the ski lodge, trying to teach him how to turn, stop, and get up.  He kept falling and began to get frustrated, so we just "went for it."  I took him up the lift to a moderate slope, (The Salamander-the East Coasts longest snow trail-2 miles) and had him come down.  That was all it took.

By the end of the second day he was tagging along with his big brother Trevor and the rest of Trev's snowboarding friends, jumping logs, and coming down the black diamonds.

What a great time and wonderful memories.
I hope you made some memories over the holidays with your family.

We have a big year in the works for Partners for Christian Media, the morning show and J103.  Pray with us and for us!

Happy New Year!

]]> 2009 is almost in the bag! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/12/2009-is-almost-in-the-bag As we are getting close to the end of 2009 we all spend a little time looking back over the past year and doing a little evaluating.

As I look back over the "Gocke 2009" it has been a trying but good year.  The Lord has provided for my family in incredible ways.  Sure, I would love to be able to say we paid off our Yukon and our house, but we did make every payment on time this year.  I know this is a blessing that many in our country wish they had.

My family has been healthy.  No major injuries or illnesses.  Again a major blessing compared to many that have lost loved ones or have been sidelined due to bad sickness.

I have lost some day to day contact with some co-workers when J103 had to eliminate some jobs to stay in business, but I hope to continue a relationship with them and know I will see them in Heaven.

I am so grateful to God for His hand of protection and provision for my family in 2009.

God has blessed J103 also.  Sure, we had our faith stretched but He used you to keep this ministry alive and well.

What will 20-10 hold?  We don't know but we do know who holds 20-10!

Have a Happy New Year!

]]> I Thank God for my kids! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/12/i-thank-god-for-my-kids As I sit here in the office this rainy Friday afternoon, I am thinking about the three kids God has blessed me and Amy with.

Lauren, a senior is making plans for college.  As a dad, I am going to miss her as she goes off to school, but I am so thankful for the young lady she is becoming.  She is proud of her faith and I know will have little problem standing up for what is right.

Trevor, a junior, is working hard and setting a good example as a Christian young man.  The principal at Heritage Hight School, (where my two oldest attend), was bragging on Trevor the other day.  It seems Trevor is one of a couple students that are taking care of the morning announcements.  (Wonder where he gets that from?)  Trevor has his sites on a career with the secret service.  He recently was allowed to "train" with a local SWAT team and was invited to come and spend some time with Sheriff Tim Goble, (who served in the secret service for a number of years and protected three Presidents.)

Chipper, an 8th grader, is........Chipper!  He makes us smile and roll our eyes all the time.  He is working hard in school and, (even though has struggled in some of his classes), is making all A's and B's. 

Two days after Christmas I am taking the boys on a ski retreat with the student ministry of Burning Bush Baptist in Ringgold.  This will be Chippers first time skiing, and I am looking forward to teaching him and spending time with my two sons.

Lauren is going to have some "special" time with Amy.

As this year comes to a close, and the season is really hectic, stop and thank God for those blessings in your life.

I am also thankful for my wife Amy's pecan tarts, white trash/chocolote chex mix, and chocolate covered peanut butter balls, but dont' tell anyone!

]]> Pray for the PD Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/12/pray-for-the-pd I had the blessing of spending some time with one of my good friends that stopped by the radio station today.  He works for a special unit of the police department.  Due to the sensitive nature of his job I can't mention any of the details except to say that we need to always remember all of our law enforcment personnel.  We need to especially remember to pray for them and their families through the holiday season.  We thank God that they are always on duty protecting us and watching over our families.

Will you join with me in praying for the Law Enforcement Personnel this Christmas season?

]]> How do you survive the hectic holidays? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/12/how-do-you-survive-the-hectic-holidays If you are like me, a spouse, parent and working a "full-time+" job the holidays can be pretty hectic, and if you are not careful you can find yourself becoming negative.

God has always blessed me with the ability to see things through His perspective.  Not all the times mind you, but for the most part-I stay pretty upbeat and cheery!

How do you do it?  People ask me that all the time.  I had one person tell me once, "You're so positive it makes me sick!  you get on my nerves."  I really got em when I just smiled and said, "Thanks, I hope you have a great day!!!"

When you realize all that God has done for you and you try to dwell on it, then the negative things and the stuff you don't have seem to get smaller and smaller.

I am a Child of God, I have eternal life and a daily relationship with the Creator of the world.  He has given me a beautiful wife, three fantastic children, a supportive and loving extended family, a nice roof over my head, food in our pantry, clothes to wear, and a job that doesn't really feel like a job!  It is a ministry.  I get to come in everyday and share with you what God is up to.  Isn't that cool.

I know that you may be struggling right now......keep your head up.  Think of one thing that God has blessed you with........got it?  Good!  Now think of another......(repeat until all those negative thoughts just fade away.)

See you on the radio and Merry Christmas!

]]> Things we do for our kids! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/12/things-we-do-for-our-kids Well, the last week and a half have been really crazy for me and my family.
Let me let you into our life in order to prove a point:  Thursday after the am show my wife and I headed up to Pigeon Forge/Gatlinburg.  We checked into the All Seasons Hotel in Pigeon Forge and walked/shopped Gatlinburg.  It was beautiful!  We ate at the Applebarn, (delicious!) and went back to the hotel to turn in early.  Friday morning I was up at 4am-at Dollywood for the morning Show at 5am.  Broadcast from 5-11am.  Went back to the hotel and picked up Amy and hit the Outlet Malls of Pigeon Forge for about 5 hours, back to Dollywood for the afternoon show, drove back home-Went to bed, got up for the J103 pancake breakfast from 5am-10am, then went and broadcast from the Antique Road Crew remote in Cleveland, came home and went on the TN Vally RR Dinner Train with our winners, and got home at about 11:30pm.

Whew!  Now here comes the point.  As supportive parents we try to be at all of our three kids activities, games etc.  This weekend Trevor had a select soccer tournament in Atlanta.  With all we had going on-there was no way we could make it there for Saturdays two games.  We planned on going Sunday morning (8am game-in Atlanta!)  After the long 48 hours we got home Sat night exhausted, so I texted Trevor and asked if he would mind if we didn't make the trip Sunday morning.  He said "No problem Dad, I understand and I am having a great time."  So we planned on sleeping in and putting up the Christmas decorations outside, (after church of course).

We received a text from our good friend Joe, (his son Jacob is Trev's best friend and team member).  They had won the game that morning, (making them 3-0 for the tournament), and would play in the championship game at 2:30.

Guess what Amy and I did........That's right-we drove to Atlanta, watched Trevor's team win the championship and came back home!

Amy summed it up on our way down to Atlanta-"You know, we won't have these days too much longer."  She's right.  Lauren is a senior, Trevor a junior and Chipper will be a freshman next year.  Keeps things in perspective!  Have a Merry Christmas with your family!

]]> Shoeboxes and the Day of Giving and Sharing-Two Huge Blessings! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/12/shoeboxes-and-the-day-of-giving-and-sharing-two-huge-blessings I have to admit-I underestimated the J103 audience!  I set the goal for our Operation Christmas Child Shoeboxes far to low-I wondered if we could see 500 boxes come in for us to deliver to the Life Care Center Drop Off Center in Cleveland.  The weekend before we lost count, literally.  People began dropping off the boxes and they were placed inside our prize cruisers at remotes etc.   When we got to Cleveland-we had no real idea of how many you had donated.  I had a good idea that we had surpassed the 500 number.  The J103 van could not fit another box inside.  The prize cruiser was filled, and the trailer was half way full.  I asked the volunteers to count the boxes for us as they unloaded them.  When they were done.......925 BOXES!!!!  Thank you!  Each of those boxes represents a child that will be presented with the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  Please pray that each of those boxes will not only bring a smile to the face of that child, but will enable their heart's door to be opened and Jesus woujld take up residence.  Their entire family and village can be changed because of these Miracles in a Shoebox!

Yesterday's Day of Giving and Sharing was so fun.  I look forward to the Day of Giving each year.  It is so exciting to see the studio phone lines jammed full of listeners trying to get through to share what God has done in their lives and of course to win the multitude of giveaways we had.  You again blessed this ministry incredibly by calling in telephone central and gave over $10,617.00.  Thank you for your faithfullness once again for this ministry.

I am excited about the next week or two.  Tomorrow morning after the morning show my wife, Amy and I are going to be heading up to Dollywood to get ready to broadcast the morning show from there Friday morning and that afternoon's remote.  After the remote on Friday we will head back so we can be ready for Saturday's J103 Pancake Breakfast with Santa at the Acropolis 6-9am.  You can still get your tickets for this wonderful family event.

Next Wednesday we open the doors of Metro Tab for our J103 Christmas Present to YOU!  A Free Concert with Mark Harris!  Hope to see you there!

]]> What a Blessing you are! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/11/what-a-blessing-you-are We have been so blessed this week by a couple of incredible gifts towards our ministry.

The first is the gift of shoeboxes.  I am in awe of the hundreds of these boxes full of toys, school supplies, personal hygiene items and various other things children all over the world will love.  I can't wait to hear the final total today as they are unloaded in Cleveland.  Will we exceed our goal of 500?  I am quite confident we will.  Listen this afternoon for the total!

The Second blessing we received was from the student ministry from Noble Fellowship Church in LaFayette.  Saturday they came to the studios so I could give them a tour.  They had brought with them a little orange M&M's mini container.  Inside was not M&M mini's but a check for $420.00.  They had passed out the little candy containers to their congregation and asked them to fill them up with quarters and turn them in for J103.  They collected $420.00.

Thank you so much.  It reminded me of the faithfullness of God.  In August we weren't sure how we were going to stay on the air.  You stepped up to the plate and blessed this minisry with your gifts and offerings. 

As it stands today we are meeting budget each month, however we still have a deficit we must wipe out before the end of December.  Our Day of Giving could be the day this happens.  Please pray for next Tuesday, Dec. 1.  Call in your testimonies to 559-1234.  Let everyone know the "gifts" God has given you through J103.  We want to share them on the air during the Day of Giving and Sharing.

God  Bless you!  Have a Happy Thanksgiving!

]]> Operation Christmas Child! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/11/operation-christmas-child it blesses our souls to see the Operation Christmas Child Shoeboxes being delivered here to J103.

Monday is the deadline and I am praying for 500 shoeboxes that we can take up to the LifeCare Center in Cleveland when we do the remote Monday.  As of right now we have 46 boxes that have been dropped off.  That leaves 453 to go!  Wow!  That seems like an impossibility...........except....

We just received a call from Chattanooga Christian Middle School saying 200 boxes are on the way.  I am picking up some this afternoon from Boynon Elementary School, tomorrow from Whitfield Academy, and I have a couple churches who's boxes are going to be included in our trip to Cleveland.

We still have a ways to go.  Will you help us out?  I have stacks of the Operation Christmas Child "How-to" brochures in the lobby here at J103.  The brochures give you ideas on how to pack your shoe box.  It also reminds you to put the $7 per box to help with shipping, and it has a label that you can choose between a girl and a boy and a little box to check which age group your box is most appropriate for.

Samaritan's Purse will place a Children's book that shares the plan of salvation through Jesus in each box.

Hundreds of children, their families, and in some cases their entire villages are being won for the Lord!  That is huge!  And it starts with something so small.........a shoebox!

Remember-the deadline is Monday-Nov. 23rd at 1pm.  Make your box one of the J103 boxes.

]]> I'm not ready to focus on Christmas!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/11/im-not-ready-to-focus-on-christmas Don't get me wrong, I love Christmas!  Celebrating the birth of our Savior is one of my favorite times of the year.  I just always feel guilty shopping, or decorating before we take that incredible day this month to "Thank" God for all of our blessings.  Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays also. 

As a child, my three brothers and I would get up and watch the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade-anticipating the arrival of Santa Claus at the end.  Doesn't that teach us something?  Santa waited until the appropriate time-the end of the parade-to make his appearance.

After the parade-we would get dressed and head to my Aunt Virginia and Uncle Charles where our very large extended family would gather, (My Aunt Virginia was my Grandpa Wiley's sister.  They had ten brothers and sisters-I was blessed with a lot of aunts and uncles and tones of cousins!)  At Aunt Virginia's we would eat a huge feast and spend time playing games like Candyland, Trouble-with the "pop-a-matic", and Sorry.  After dinner we would always go across the street to the old school and play hide-and-seek or football.  It was a blast.

The day after Thanksgiving was when we officially kicked off the Christmas season.  There were no Christmas trees up, no lights turned on-until the day after Thanksgiving.  The only hint that Christmas was coming was the fact that the Sears and JC Penny's Christmas Catalog's had come in October.

That's how it should be!  Remember to focus on Thanksgiving and counting all of our blessings (at least for the next two weeks.)

According to the rules of the "Morning Show with Ted-Home Edition" You can go ahead and hang up your Christmas decorations-just don't light them up until the day after Thanksgiving!

]]> 20-10 will be an incredible year! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/11/20-10-will-be-an-incredible-year My new wall calendar arrived yesterday.  I was able to list all of the activities and events that J103 will be sponsorsing for next year.

Wow!  20-10 is going to be busy and fantastic.  We have five major events that will take place, including JFest, the Listener Appreciation Party/Concert/Auction, The Return of the Golf Classic to Bear Trace and the biggest event of the year........(We can't tell you yet.)  We will tell you that you will have the opportunity to spend some time with a former, and maybe future presidential candidate!

Keep up to date on all of the exciting events your radio station is producing, by checking out www.j103.com

]]> The Windows are Open! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/11/the-windows-are-open As I am sitting here this morning waiting on the rest of my family to get ready for church, (why am I always the first one ready?), updating my blog, the windows of our kitchen/dining room are open and there is a nice cool breeze blowing through on a beautiful sunny day.

I can remember just a few short weeks ago, the heavy rains and flooding that was occuring all around us.  Yesterday I was in Carollton GA at the Georgia State Cross Country Championship-wearing shorts!

God is so good.  He knows when we need rain.  He knows when we need sunshine.  For a summer boy, watching the leaves fall off the trees, the days getting much shorter, and the cold weather can be depressing.  Days like these make it easier to bear! 

Remember, when you get a bad case of the "blahs", that God is just as near today as he is on the really "good" days.

All in favor of skipping winter and jumping right to spring, (after Christmas of course) give me a shout out!

Now if I could just figure out how to get rid of the world's ladybug population in my kitchen!

]]> Lessons from the Hospital Waiting Room 2 Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/11/lessons-from-the-hospital-waiting-room-2 Last week, while sitting in the Hospital Waiting Room waiting while my mother-in-law was in surgery, God really spoke some valuable lessons and truths into my life.

My mother-in-law had just come successfully through the surgery.  After a stay in recovery they moved her up to her room.  It was a beautiful part of the hospital I had never been to.  The Mary Ellen Locher Cancer Floor.  It was really nice!

They were getting Amy's mom situated in her room, her sisters and dad were with her, so I remained out in the hall.

The surgeon had just delivered the news that the tumor they removed from my mother-in-law was twice the size they had thought, and the cancer had spread which would require chemo and radiation therapy.  Not the news we had hoped for.

As I was sitting there, I recognized a friend of mine coming out of the room next door.  I could tell something was causing him and his family sadness.  I learned that his mother-in-law was about to leave this world and join Jesus in Heaven.  She had battled cancer for some time.  She did go home to be with the Lord in the next few minutes.

What was the lesson-God showed me that He is in control.  Things could always be worse (at least that would be what the majority of the world thinks).  Going home to Heaven is the best thing that could happen to someone-but you know what I think.  For the family the new seperation from their loved one was sad.

My wife, kids, inlaws and I still have time to spend with my mother-in-law.  What are we going to do with the remainder of that time?  How much are emphasis are we going to put on serving the Lord together by the way we express our love?

Sitting in a hospital can be very eye-openening!

Please continue to pray for my mom-in-law and family.
Thanks
Ted

]]> Lessons from the Hospital Waiting Room Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/11/lessons-from-the-hospital-waiting-room Yesterday, I sat for most of the day and waited.  I waited on the results of my mother-in-law's surgery.  She had been diagnosed with breast cancer two weeks prior and was having a mascectomy.

As I sat in the waiting room at Memorial Hospital, I read, did a little work on my computer, tried to check my facebook, (apparently blocked at the hospital!), and spent a lot of time in prayer.

God did answer our prayers.  Amy's mom came through surgery fine, and was really alert last night when we got to finally see her in a room.  The results-not what we had hoped for-the tumor was twice the size the doctors anticiapted and the cancer has spread.  She will now face chemotherapy and radiation treatments.

Sitting there with Amy, her dad and two sisters, I could hear them ask the same questions that I had heard many yesterday mutter in that waiting room full of anxious and worried families....."How will they be able to deal/handle this...."

God gave me a word......we, as believers, and followers of Christ, shouldn't say "How will......"    but rather......"Just will....."

How Will you handle chemotherapy.....No....through Christ we Just Will handle chemotherapy.

How Will I handle this job loss?.......No......through Christ we Just Will handle this job loss.

How Will I handle this disapontment?......No......through Christ we Just Will handle this and every disapointment and challenge.

The first of, what I am sure will be many, lessons God is teaching me in the Hospital Waiting Room.

]]> JFEST 2010???? Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/10/jfest-2010 Alright, JFest has celebrated 11 years of music and ministry.  Last year for the first time we moved this incredible festival, that has seen hundreds of people give their lives to the Lord, to Abba's House due to the economy and the cost saving/risk eliminating(rain) measures.

We have basically heard two different types of comments:
     1.  I miss Camp Jordan and being outside-it does not feel like a
         festival-we want grass under our feet!
     2.  We love the air conditioning and the nice restrooms of Abba's
          House.

We are getting close to making the decision on JFest 2010.  What do you think?  It is your festival!  You have made JFest a huge success and fantastic family tradition to kick off the summer each year.  Where should we have JFest 2010?  Multiple days?  (Friday-Saturday?  Saturday-Sunday?)  Who would you like to see at JFest?

Give us your best case scenario.  Would you like to see it at....(place).....on .....(days) and I want to see.....(who?) on the line up?

]]> The End of an Era Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/10/the-end-of-an-era This afternoon my daughter, Lauren, will lace up her running shoes and run in the city cross country championship at Baylor High School.  As a senior, this is her 7th year to run at that beautiful school.  Many years she has run multiple races there.  Baylor's course is not her favorite, in fact up until this year, she disliked that course very much.

Last night at the supper table, we were talking about the race today.  She had the flu and missed about a week of running, (practice and 2 races).  Her coach has given her the option of running with the varsity, (where she has earned a position), or forfeiting her spot on the 7 member varsity team and running on the JV team.

If she chooses to run JV then one of the girls who has run in her spot for two weeks will have to go back down to JV.  For most students, this would not be a difficult decision.  For my daughter, she is so compassionate-she is struggling with the decision.

What do you think she should do?  As her parents we told her, that if she had not been sick, this would not even be a decision because she is the #2 or #3 runner.  We advised her to go ahead and run the varsity race, (the runner she would displace is a sophomore, and has  a couple of years left to run varsity.)

Tough decision, and we will be proud of her-whichever she chooses.  In fact, we are already proud of her for her compassion and support of her teammates.

]]> Some things change-some things don't Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/10/some-things-change-some-things-dont Most people that have a job description that includes the phrase "other duties as assigned"  One of those things that was just added to mine and our music director Justins today was "Removing old satelite dishes and water logged concrete blocks from the station roof."

We received a phone call from our landlord here at the J103 facilities that two old satelite dishes from the old RX107 days was causing damage to the roof and causing leaks.  In our lease we, the current media tennants were responsible for removing this archiac equipment.

I contacted a local crane service, The James Wilson Company, and they cut us a great deal for the use of a boom crane and operator.  We contacted our station engineer Sam, and all met at 8:30 this morning to remove the two huge dishes.  The dishes came off real easy, the most difficult part-the water-logged concrete blocks used to anchor the equipment.

As one of the dishes was being lowered to the ground, I had the thought of how radio technology has changed the message of Christian radio has not.  Once new-those two big dishes helped broadcast the gospel of Jesus Christ around the world, (the old tennants actually used them to pull in programming), but now they were just a pile of scrap metal.

As I mentioned-the Gospel of Jesus Christ never changes.  The Word of God is the same yesterday, today and forever.  It is applicable to our every day life.  If you have not asked Jesus Christ to come into your heart and life I encourage you to, right now, call 1888-Need-Him.  Someone is sitting-waiting for your call-right now! 

To see the pictures of our "Other Duty As Assigned" log on to our J103 Facebook page.

]]> Getting sentimental in my "old" age Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/10/getting-sentimental-in-my-old-age Yesterday afternoon I had to take one of our dogs back to the veternarian to have some post-operative stiches removed.  The last time I was in that office was not a happy one.  One of the saddest days of my life was when I had to take our ailing Beagle "Mandy" to be put to sleep.  We had "adopted" her the day we got back from our honeymoon from the humane society in Louisville KY.  We had that dog longer than any of our kids.  I balled like a baby.  Isn't it incredible how attached we get to those animals God gives us dominion over?

So, back to yesterday.  I am sitting there with "Nala" and it was no time at all when they called her back.  As they walked her to the back, she stopped right before the door and looked back at me with those big sad eyes.  I got a huge lump in my throat.  I vividly remembered my previous trip to the office.  I looked through the open door of exam room #5 where I said goodbye to Mandy.  I noticed the other pet owners sitting in the waiting room with their beloved animals and wondered how much their pets meant to them.  One small older dog was waiting his turn to see the doctor.  It's owner, a rather large, middle-aged man and his mother were holding it.  He was hugging it real tight.  I don't know what the dog was there for, maybe just shots or a check up, but I could sense the love they had for that dog.

Less than five minutes later the assistant brought Nala back out-stiches removed.  Our canine was so excited, (I wonder if they gave her a lolipop or something?), we went out the door and were on our way.

I can remember thanking God for our previous animal member of our family and once again, (don't tell my wife), I thanked him for the four dogs we have.  They bring so much joy to our lives don't they?

What about you?  Any wonderful pet stories?  I'd like to see if I am the only sentimantal sap.

]]> It' Seems Lilke a Week! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/10/it-seems-lilke-a-week It seems like it has been a week since I have posted a new blog.......probably because it has.  After the morning show last week I took the rest of the day off to be with my kids on their Fall Break.  It was really nice.  We visited a couple of colleges, worked in the yard, saw an incredible illusion show, had a surprise birthday party for Lauren, (thrown by two of her incredible friends!  Thanks Steph and Lizard!)

Speaking of Lauren, I am so proud of her.  She is wonderful.  She came down with the flu early Friday, but still went and took the SAT on Saturday morning.  Pray for her and my wife Amy-they both have the flu pretty bad!  Me and the boys are trying to stay away as much as possible and have washed our hands more times this weekend than we have in years.

It's good to be back with you on the blog and the Morning Show!  I will post some pics real soon of our Prostate Cancer Media Walk two Saturdays ago-It was a lot of fun and the views were breathtaking.

]]> This was the Best Friendraiser I can remember! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/10/this-was-the-best-friendraiser-i-can-remember I have been with J103 for almost every one of the Share-a-thons.  This one seemed to have a really fresh presence of the Holy Spirit.  It was evident in the testimonies, in the callers pledges and in the sacrifice of our volunteers that God was definately in control, on His throne and providing for His ministry.

After my show each day I would move into the telephone central room and relieve Justin.  Thursday evening I was sitting at the laptop entering the pledges so that the guys in the studio could see the current totals.  From my vantage point I could hear the volunteers speaking to each person that called.  They would hand me the pledge form and I would enter it into the computer.  I was the first person to be able to see the need being closer and closer to being reached!  We actually met the need way before the 7pm deadline!  Thank you Jesus!  And what is more-God confirmed the fact that He is in control by allowing us to go over the need by $19,000+

Now don't forget to send in those pledges-this was perhaps the most important, crucial friendraiser we have ever had.  Now can you imagine if all those who called in would continue to partner with us each month-we would never have to face a deficit like this again.

I can sense a new spirit of life to this ministry!  Your ministry!  God's ministry!  Reaching people for Christ through the Power of One!

Have a great weekend!

]]> We have the most incredible listeners! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/09/we-have-the-most-incredible-listeners As I sit here updating this blog-our Fall Friendraiser is going on, and I am sitting in telephone central, (after my 5 hour onair show), entering in the pledges and gifts that are coming in.

Those of you who have callled in are incredible!  Thank you for making the transition from listener to partner.  The phones have been ringing consistently.

When you call you are demonstrating The Power of One!  Each and every gift, like the woman who annointed Jesus in Mark 14, is significant.  Each $20, $40, $50 is just as important as the $500's and $1000's.  They each are responsible in reaching people for Christ and encouraging those who already walk with Him.

Speaking of someone who walks with Him, remember in prayer Denia Reese.  She is the Catoosa County Superintendent.  I am sure you have seen in the news the controversy surrounding the LFO HS cheerleaders banners at the football games.  For 20 years they have included inspirational, motivational scripture verses.  A Fort Oglethorpe citizen has filed a complaint, therefore they have been banned.

As you can imagine, this has caused quite the stir/debate.  Tonight there will a rally at the Fort Oglethorpe Chik-fil-a to support the cheerleaders and their signs.

Will Mrs. Reese be there?  I don't know, but I firmly belive she would want to.  She loves Catoosa County schools.  She loves the students who attend Catoosa County schools.  And I know she is a very Godly woman, who reads and follows God's Word, but she is faced with some very difficult decisions.

Make sure that in your debate and protests that you keep the issue at hand.  What has to happen is the Consitutional rights of the cheerleaders have to be demonstrated.  The Catoosa County School Board also has to protect the system from frivilous law suits.

Remember just because you disagree with the decisions or opionions of others, you are called by God to love, respect and pray for them.

I pray that this situation came be turned around and the cheerleaders rights to display any motivational, inspirational, quotes they wish, including those from the greatest motivational, inspirational book ever-God's Word.

]]> OPen House!!!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/09/open-house As I type this update to the blog and look out of my office window here on Ringgold Rd my view has just been obstructed by two huge inflatables!  Come on by from 10-1 today and allow me the pleasure of meeting you!

]]> What a difference 50 feet can make! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/09/what-a-difference-50-feet-can-make What would normally be a 10 minute commute to Walmart took over an hour yesterday.

Chipper was out of school again yesterday, and had pre-ordered a new video game for his XBox 360.  It was available at midnight the night before, but due to the time I have to get up and get to work, I told him he would have to wait until the next day to get it.

Well.......the flooding caused a small problem.  When his nana and papa came to take him to the video store they got within site of the Walmart shopping center on Hwy 2A but were forced to turn back due to the police blocking the flooded road.  He was so close.

Becuase I felt bad for him having to stay at home all day and (I know this is bad) read a book or watch TV and play his other (10,000) games, I told him I would get him to that video store somehow after I got off of work.

I went home and picked him up.  We had to go to the end of Three Notch Road to Red Belt Road to the flooded out mill near Chickamauga, to Hwy 27 to the Chickamauga Battlefield, to the other end of Battlefield Pkwy to get his........video game!  He was really grateful that I made the trip, and got him his newest addiction.

As I pulled out of the Walmart parking lot to make the (much longer) trek back home again, I saw the section of road that was shut down.  It was only about 50 feet.  I can see how people are tempted to drive around those "Road Closed" baricades and try to manuever the high waters.  Now listen......I don't condone it!!!  Follow the signs!!!!  But with a boy desperate for a video game, I can see how parents might entertain that thought.

Because of just a "little amount" of shut down road, we were forced to take an hour round trip.  It reminds me of the way J103 has been kept on the air all these years.  Just a "Little amount" from many people has kept this ministry reaching people for Christ.  Don't ever forget The Power of One!  Your gift, given cheerfully is making a huge difference!
Thank you for reaching people for Christ!

]]> Flooding just messes everything up! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/09/flooding-just-messes-everything-up This is what Chipper has been saying!  There is a new video game for his XBox Live that came out at Midnight last night.  They are out of school all day today, so he would of had plenty of time to enjoy it today, BUT, Battlefield Pkwy is closed from Dietz Rd past the Walmart which means.....we can't get to the store to pick it up.

As you can imagine, I am not looking forward to letting him know Nana and Papa can't pick him up and go get it! 

With the flooding that is going on and people having to evacuate their houses, with lives that have been lost, it will be easy to help him keep this disapointment in perspective.  Chipper has a good heart-he'll be alright!

We will pray for those people effected in "real" ways.  We all need to remember when we face difficulties and disapointments in our life that there is a bigger picture. 

No matter what is going on in our lives....We are so blessed!

]]> Played the kids favorite song this morning-The School Closing Music Bed! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/09/played-the-kids-favorite-song-this-morning-the-school-closing-music-bed Trevor got excited last night when talking to one of his good friends, learned that there would be no school in Catoosa County.  How was he one of the first to know?  Trevor's friend's dad is one of the Catoosa County Schools employee that makes the decision on school closings.  I will keep his identity a secret so he doesn't get inundated with calls from Catoosa County students all winter!

As a child I can remember staying glued to the TV screen watching for our school's name to appear on the School Closing list, and for the most part to no avail.  Our school system never closed!  Very few times did we get out becasue of inclement weather-and when we did it was only in extreme blizzard conditions!  We never even thought about being dismissed from school becuase of rain!

Living where I do now in Catoosa County-I understand now why schools dismiss or cancel becuase of coming bad weather.  Student's safety is priority 1.

As a parent of three students, (two who are driving) I am thankful that there are people making those calls!

It's funny how our perspective changes isn't it?  As a child we watch the school closings for much different reasons than we do as parents.
Kids want a break-Parents want to make sure their kids are safe.  I don't think safety was ever one of the things that ran through my mind as a student.  Thinking about safety is an adult thing!

I used to think that supporting Christian Radio was an adult thing also.
Students listen for the great music and leave the funding to the adults.  I don't think that way anymore.  Last week I was blessed by Cara and Chad Kent and their friend Cora Williams from Grace Bridge Church of Christ.  Cara had a great idea to raise funds for J103....she headed up a "fundraising campaign" one Sunday morning in her church lobby.  Equipped with handmade signs and a donation box these three incredible kids raised close to $300 for the ministry of J103.  It was so cool to meet these awesome kids and their mom as they came and delivered the donation to their favorite radio station-J103.  Thanks guys-we couldn't reach people with the gospel of Jesus Christ without you.

]]> "Honey-you're life has just changed." Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/09/honey-youre-life-has-just-changed These were the words texted to Amyee Hargett from husband Jason, right after he sank a million dollar shot at a charity golf tournament.  The Utah, steak house employee and father of 4 changed his mind at the last minute and decided to play that day in a golf tournament.  He didn't have his clubs with him, so he borrowed his brothers and went to play.  One of the holes was a contest hole where the 5 "closest to the pin" would get to shoot on a par 3 to win a million dollars.  Jason qualified and then made the million dollar shot.  He had already alerted his wife earlier in the day, via text that he would be taking a shot at the million dollars.  After watching his ball go in the hole, and after picking himself up off the ground he texted his wife with the great news.

How would you alert your spouse you just won a million dollars?  I posed this question this morning, and had some great calls.

Calls ranged from:  I would go in and swoop my spouse off their feet like in the movie "Officer and a Gentleman"  (and this was the wife talking!)

The wife of a local chicken farmer said she would slip a note under one of the chickens for her husband to find......what would the note say?   You've just found a Golden Egg!

Limos picking up spouses at their places of employment, inviting spouses to meet them at the airport for exotic trips, and paying off all of the families bills and debts were the most popular.

Our favorite?    The listener that called in to say the first thing they would do is stop by J103 to eliminate our deficit and rehire all of our laid off staff.  We love you!!!!

If it were me?  I would pay off all of our bills, (this would take about an hour or two-my wife handles our bills), and I would go purchase a brand new Chevy Camaro in my wife's favorite color.  I would go and pick her up at work, invite her out into the parking lot, give her the keys to the car and let her know that we have to get to the airport because I have chartered a plane to take our family on a trip.  I would also bless all of my favorite ministries and charities and put money away to secure our future.

It is so cool to dream-but we have to be careful to not take our eyes off of our Great Provider.  God is already blessing us each and every day with more than we deserve.  Don't forget that!  But it's still cool to dream!

]]> America's Got Talent!!!! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/09/americas-got-talent Well, last night's season finale of America's Got Talent has proven once again that everyone has some sort of talent.  I don't know if you caught any of the acts on this season's competition, but it proved that there are all types of talent!

The winner this year is Kevin Skinner from Kentucky.  Kevin is known as "The Chicken Catcher."  He is a humble, God-fearing country boy who, no joke, works as a Chicken Catcher.  He really stunned the world with his incredible country-style voice.  Kevin won 1 million dollars and a headlining show on the strip of Las Vegas.

The amount of talent this season should not surprise us, the apostle Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 12 that we are all given at least one spiritual gift "talent" once you give your heart and life to Jesus.

What's your gift?  Do you know?  And most importantly are you using it?

]]> What a Motivator! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/09/what-a-motivator It is impressive at how a TV show can really motivate you to stay faithful to your diet and exercise plan.

I have a confession to make.  Those of you who followed the Morning Show with Ted last year-you heard all about my training for my first ever Bodybuilding Show.  You had to put up with all the boiled egg whites, grilled chicken breasts and rice, protein shakes, talk.  You endured all of the updates from my workout routines.  I placed 4th out of 5 in the 2008 Battle of the River in Chattanooga.

I lost about 45 pounds and went from 21% body fat to about 8%.  Well since the contest, I have put back on about 20 pounds.  My new pants and shirts that I had purchased are feeling a little snug now.  I have gone back to my old eating habits, of eating whatever I want basically, and have recently allowed my gym membership to expire, (that happens in a tough economy when you have a son in select soccer!).

I was sitting on the couch last night with my family and had just eaten 4 of the little mini-Heath candy bars.  4 of those "minis" probably equals a regular size candy bar right?  As soon as I finished the last one the show The Biggest Loser came on.  I suddenly was overcome with guilt.  I heard the stories of these people who allowed their health to suffer because of their eating habits and lack of exercise.

God dealt with me last night and made me recomit to eating healthy and begin exercising more regularly again.  What do you think?  Can I lose 20 pounds by Christmas?  That is my new goal!

Pray for me......join me in losing weight and becoming healthier this holiday season!

Drink your water!

]]> Tuesday's Morning-Stop Complaining! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/09/tuesdays-morning-stop-complaining Isn't the new website awesome!!!

The only complaint I have is on the Morning Show with Ted page is a cup of coffee!  I hate coffee!  I have been giving our "web-master" a hard time about this.  He is going to try to find a picture of a bagel and some orange juice or some yogurt-you know something more "Ted/Healthy"

Isn't that just like us-we have something as nice and wonderful as a new website and we just seem to pick out the flaws.  I do this too often in life.  We all do.

Wouldn't it be great if we could always have the contentment to see how blessed we really are every day?  I am going to try to work on that.  Want to join me?

Please continue to pray for J103.  We are so thankful for all who have felt led and acted obediently in supporting our ministry in this economic crisis, but we still have a long way to go!  Our Fall Friendraiser is about two weeks away, and we are going to be talking about the Power of One!  One person's gift of $10, $20 $50, really does make a huge impact on this ministry.  Pray about whether God wants you to support this incredible life-saving/changing media ministry.

Have a great Tuesday!


 

]]> Ted's Morning Blog! Ted Gocke http://www.j103.com/blog/ted-gockes-blog/2009/08/teds-morning-blog Welcome to the all-new J103 Web Page! We are so excited tro see your new link to "all-things J103" up and running. A lot of people have worked really hard to make this an up to date and effective connection to your favorite radio ministry.

Make sure you check out the morning show page. On the old J103 site Ted's Blog was the only place I could give you; The Power Verse of the Day, the DQ Birthday Cake winners, the Monday Morning Chuckle, Ted's Family Friendly Friday lists, and things like that. All of that and more is now on the Morning Show with Ted page.

This blog will be my online diary if you will. I will try to share with you all the things God is doing in my life and in the life of my family.

Speaking of that.....On a recent Monday, I learned that I no longer dislike a certain food. I have never liked tomatoes-I guess it's a texture thing. I can remember my Grandpa walking through his garden when I was a child and he would just pick a ripe tomato off of the vine and eat it. Would always gross me out. I love tomato soup. I love good salsa, but tomatoes by themselves.....Yuck! Well......a few of us were eating at a country style restaurant and on the buffet I thought they had fried squash, or eggplant-(both of which I love.) I got a couple pieces and ate them. They were delicious! I then asked the waitress if it was squash or eggplant. To my surprise......Fried Green Tomatoes! I was so shocked! They were so sweet and really good! I guess I now like Fried Green Tomatoes! My grandpa is probably laughing in Heaven right now!

Our life can be just like that......we spend most of our life "not liking something" when we haven't really given it much of a chance. I can honestly say, that I have never had Fried Green Tomatoes before that fateful meal. I know I didn't like fresh tomatoes, but who would of known-Green and fried?

What's the point? I guess I need to be a littel bit more open-minded about certain things........including certain veggies!! Are there things in your life that you unfairly "dislike?"

Thanks for listening! and for supporting J103!

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